binrob Posted November 7, 2016 Posted November 7, 2016 I met this girl, she seemed great and we both seemed to like each other. After a few dates we had sex. She seemed normal afterwards. However we both study and we both had exams coming up so neither of us really had time to meet for about 2 weeks. We kind of snapchatted a bit now and then asking each other how the studying was going. After my exam last friday she snapchatted me and asked me how the exam went and stuff. Then that weekend she left for her home town to be with her family so we couldn't meet. She didn't contact me during that time which I didn't mind I guess. I asked her when we could meet again she said her mother was coming back with her so she couldn't meet until she left at the end of the week. This is where things got worse. She never contacted me basically during this time and if I contacted her she wouldn't open the snaps or respond. On thursday I asked if her mom left. She had. I kind of wondered why she didn't contact me when her mom left but whatever. I didn't mention it. I asked if she could meet this weekend. She said she was leaving for the country side to be with her relatives and couldn't. I know this is true cause I saw her snap stories. However now I know she's back and she hasn't contacted me. Is she trying to tell me that she has lost interest or is has she just been busy? I thought maybe the sex changed her interest. I mean I am no casanova but I don't suck in bed. So I don't know. Don't want to contact her again since I have clearly not been a priority for a while.
BDJ_1 Posted November 7, 2016 Posted November 7, 2016 I think you already know the answer to your question.
hew Posted November 7, 2016 Posted November 7, 2016 This girl sounds like she is about to travel the world and never come back lol! Anyways, I know it sucks, you put in effort and get none back and its like well sh*t! I think that genuinely if she was interested she would be more responsive to you and the conversation between you two would just happen equally. You shouldn't have to message her to finally make plans and ask if her moms gone. I get how annoying that is. Honestly, try and just move your focus elsewhere. Don't worry about her and if its something thats meant for you she will realize what she's missing and will come to you. Best of luck!!
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