pr4589 Posted November 6, 2016 Posted November 6, 2016 To make things short, i'm from new jersey about 20 mins from nyc. Took a girl out a few times about a year ago who i was super infatuated with. She ended up pulling a 180 and blocking me for no reason. I did the whole trying to understand and it made things worse. Destroyed my self esteem and put me in a 10 month depression. Finally after all this time, im starting to become ok but theres a slight ding to the situation. Anytime im in the city for work or debating about moving there, i immediately get that "feeling" in my chest like when you are first dumped. Kind of like the city overall reminds me of her. I tried to tell myself thats ridiculous but i even walked passed this girl once on my lunch break about a year ago during the middle of this depression phase. What are the odds? Girl didn't even care or look at me. To put it blunt, i don't want it to cause pain but nyc is causing it because of 1 person. My question is, my father lives in los angeles. Should i attempt to start a life there? I took a vacation there and its ok..I prefer nyc because i guess im conditioned to it being the "center" of the us but again the pain comes back due to this girl. It has been a year so not sure if time is a definite solution.
Trinity_84 Posted November 6, 2016 Posted November 6, 2016 Don't move for a girl (or to avoid one), move because you want to make a change in your life, start over, learn new things, meet new people, have new experiences.
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