ironpony Posted November 5, 2016 Posted November 5, 2016 (edited) I broke up with my gf after I talked about her before and got advice on this thread on here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/transitioning/getting-married/577101-wrong-jerk-ish-me-ask-my-girlfriend-pre-nup-if-we-got-married Earlier in our relationship, before that situation from the other thread, something else happened, involving a friend. About a year ago, my gf invited me and another female friend out. This female friend was part of my group of friends and I also went out on a few dates with her way back, but then we just decided to remain friends and she became part of my group of friends, cause my friends liked her. Now my gf invited this friend of mine out, and me as well, but I couldn't come cause I already had plans to do other things. So my friend went out with my gf and my gf's friends without me, to a pub. My gf bumped into her parents while she was at the pub with her friends and my friend, and her parents joined her for a bit. Later on my friend told my gf and her parents about how we had sex years ago, and how I was the best in bed, and she went into explicit detail about it, to my gf, my gf's friends, and her parents. Now I wasn't there so I was just going by what my gf told me. My gf told me this is what happened and this is what my friend said at the pub. But my gf's friends' also told me this as well and my gf's parents told me that my friend said this as well. I was so mad at my friend that I stopped talking to her after that, since I do not like my friend's sharing those things with my gf's parents. If my gf is manipulative, do you think that she put up her whole group of friends and her own parents to lie about what my friend said, if she is? I mean I have trouble believing her parents would do that since they are nice people and I spent two Christmas's with them, as well as visited them on other occasions. But if my gf is not all who she seems, do you think she put her friend and her own parents up to lying about what my friend said, and that maybe my friend is innocent? Thanks for reading the long message, and any honest advice and opinions. I really appreciate it. Edited November 5, 2016 by ironpony
Scarlett.O'hara Posted November 5, 2016 Posted November 5, 2016 Why on earth do you think all these people are lying to you? It almost sounds like you are looking for an excuse to take this friend/exes side when she clearly has an agenda. If you want to keep your girlfriend, you can't be friends with the other woman. It's your choice.
Author ironpony Posted November 5, 2016 Author Posted November 5, 2016 Well it's because of the advice people gave me on the other thread, that I linked. People on here said that my gf was being manipulative in other situations. So I wasn't sure if it was she who lied about it, or my friend, cause of what other people said about my gf before.
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