Shawnnag34 Posted November 2, 2016 Posted November 2, 2016 I posted on here about a month ago when my boyfriend of a year and a half left me and moved out while I was at work. I later found out he moved in with his one ex, her 4 kids and grandkids, and her mom.. Since then we have talked and he said he did it cause I broke his trust back in march. I think hes just saying that to justify what he did. I have more than proven myself since then and we had an amazing summer. I never saw this coming. So one week after he moved out I was at work and he called and had my boss tell me all my stuff was outside and the locks on my house were changed since I wasnt on the lease. So thanfully my friend let me stay with her and I.just got my own place and am moving.. Anyhow 2 weeks after he left me and him were talking everyday. He came to see me once and we did sleep together. But he continued to unblock my number and call or text me when he was at work and he said he missed me and that he wanted to be with me again..but then thursday night his girlfriend found out we have been talking and he told me he needs space. ..so i havent called or texted him since. Then today my friend texted him asking him to talk to me cause ive been sad. He told her id be fine and he cant be with someone he cant trust. That was 8 months ago...I am an amazing women he told me so last week. He said he didnt wanna be where he is and so forth. but guess if he didnt wanna be there he wouldnt be. Anyhow even though it's truly his loss I miss him like crazy. How can he just not care anymore? I dont get it and am so hurt. I try not to think of him bit i do all the time. No matter how distracted I.make myself I still miss and love him and I hate it. He has my number and fb blocked so I cant call or text him. And he didnt have to do that. I never bothered him. I am just so hurt and cant stand it anymore.
Kelley Posted November 2, 2016 Posted November 2, 2016 I'm sure he still cares but not enough to try again with you. Keep on that track, it is his loss! You deserve someone that wants to be with you 100%. You need to accept it's over and just go NC. Missing someone is just part of moving on. I know it hurts like hell, but you have to go through the pain to heal. Please go NC and heal, you deserve so much better, it will get easier in time trust me. 2
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