Hilly1990 Posted November 2, 2016 Posted November 2, 2016 Hi, I have been seeing my girlfriend for around 4 months now. Everything has been going great until yesterday when she said she wasn't sure what she wanted anymore. This came as a shock as i thought everything was going well. When asked about this she just said 'something wasn't 100%' and she doesn't know why she feels like this. Hopefully she will be coming round tonight to talk about things but i'm unsure what route to take. She says she loves me but i can't help but feel when someone says their unsure it's just another way of saying it's over? Also she has recently stopped taking her anti-depressants which makes me think this will be messing her head up slightly. Hopefully things work out for the better but if she continues to say things like i don't know what i want then i'm unsure what i should do. Would it be better to give her space and start distancing myself from her to protect myself from being hurt further or just continue as i normally would with her hoping that things will go back to normal?
Gaeta Posted November 2, 2016 Posted November 2, 2016 Why did she stop taking her anti-depressants?? This is not something you can stop and start at will. When it's time to stop anti-depressant you have to slowly lower the dosage and be supervised by your doctor over months. If you stop your anti-depressant in one shot you can have a huge negative reaction.
Author Hilly1990 Posted November 2, 2016 Author Posted November 2, 2016 She said they made her angry and she knows that you shouldn't just stop cold turkey so not sure why she's took that approach.. Will speak to her about it tonight!
Gaeta Posted November 2, 2016 Posted November 2, 2016 She said they made her angry and she knows that you shouldn't just stop cold turkey so not sure why she's took that approach.. Will speak to her about it tonight! If they make her angry than she needs to go back to her doctor and he'll change her prescriptions for something else. She can throw herself back into a depression by stopping cold turkey. I think until she goes back to her doctor there is no point of debating your relationship. She is not being herself right now.
Redhead14 Posted November 2, 2016 Posted November 2, 2016 She said they made her angry and she knows that you shouldn't just stop cold turkey so not sure why she's took that approach.. Will speak to her about it tonight! It is very important that she go back to her doctor. Who prescribed the meds? Did she get the meds from her GP without an evaluation by a therapist/psychiatrist? Meds shouldn't be prescribed by a GP alone . . . If they make her angry, it's likely that either the "diagnosis" is incorrect or the meds simply are right for her. 1
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