Seducer11 Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 Guys, let juz say tat u're trying ur very best to make NC to ur ex g.f after she dumped u for the third time n feels nothing abt it.She dosen't appreciate ur kindsness, love, patience n commitment.She's been giving the same reason for every single break ups (which is;she dosen't have any feelings for u anymore).And its time u finally realized that U're sick and tired of crawling, crying and begging for her to come back.U already gave her 3 chances and she fuc*ing blew it.Deep in ur heart u really do n still love her and at the same time u wanna forget abt this girl n juz move on due to the pain she had caused. So the only way to stop thinking abt this girl and make her realized that u are no longer sitting under her feet is to make NC to her..Now the questions is, how would u handle NC with her when u have to see her every single day in college?N u know tat u will be heartbroken (n in worst case u'll end up begging for her again) if u saw her with someone new.What would u do in order not to let urself end up under her feet? U know tat its really hard to set ur mind to forget someone when ur heart still remember them.To be frankly honest, sometimes i felt tat i am trapped in her world.A world where no matter wat i do i will always be crawling n end up under her feet.A world that is filled with nothing more than sadness and pain.Where u once entered u can never exit..It is really painful to know the one tat u truly love is the one that hurt u the most. "When love and life has torn apart,where do the shattered pieces lie?"
Zaira Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 Firstly ask yourself why you love her? Secondly ask yourself if you deserve to be hurt again and again? Thirdly, ask yourself if there are other girls in the world? It will be hard seeing her, but hold your head up high and just keep walking. Concentrate on yourself (,your studies) and your own happiness. You don't need this kind of person in your life. She knows she can keep on calling whenever she needs, and you'll keep running. She's playing you. Snap out of it!!!!!!!!
Marshbear Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 Don't be a doormat!!!!!! Don't be a doormat!!!!!! Stop being a DOORMAT!!!!!! Can't make it any plainer than that. Believe what she has told you and do not be a doormat!!!!!
Marshbear Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 Don't be a doormat!!!!!! Don't be a doormat!!!!!! Stop being a DOORMAT!!!!!! Can't make it any plainer than that. Believe what she has told you and do not be a doormat!!!!!
Marshbear Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 Don't be a doormat!!!!!! Don't be a doormat!!!!!! Stop being a DOORMAT!!!!!! Can't make it any plainer than that. Believe what she has told you and do not be a doormat!!!!!
Marshbear Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 Sorry. The thread kind got multiple posts. Did not mean to do it....
Author Seducer11 Posted July 12, 2005 Author Posted July 12, 2005 Thank Q Zaira for ur reply.. Why do i love her so much.?I myself couldn't explain why i luv her so much despite she has given me nothing but pain.Probably i enjoyed her company and i love all the cute little silly things she used to do to me.I love the way she jumped at me whenever we met.Maybe its the little things tat keeps my love for her alive. Do i deserve to be hurt again n again?I dunno..Its really painful though and sometimes it makes me wonder whether she has ever loved me with all her heart or not.I know i can never find out..Often i asked myself tat will she ever realized the love i had for her, will she ever understand that the pain n tears i cried are real n will she finally comes back n stop saying goodbye, IF i would stay n keeps on loving her even if my heart would break.Why i wanna do tat?..Well its like smoking and taking alcohol, most ppl knew tat smoking is bad for their lungs but still they take it...And alcohol is bad for ur heart but still they drink it..I know i am digging my own grave by waiting and having faith for her returns but somehow part of me just want to stay.And the other part of me is fighting really hard to make me get up and walk away.Honestly i really don't know.All i know is tat i wanna be happy and that happiness is being with her. Are they other girls in the world?? Well definitely there's plenty of them..N maybe some of them would treat me much better than her. But then again, there are alot of fishes in the sea but there's very little mermaid. Trust me,with all my heart i do want to move on.Its juz that its really hard.It feels like there's a heavy stone on my feet tat prevent me frm moving forward.Tat's why i need some advice.I need something to convince that she's definitely not worth it but somehow i can't find any solution tat agree with tat statement.I wish in this world there's a thing where u can erase part of ur memory n if there is then i would be running as fast as i could to that place and have my memory abt her erased....
Zaira Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 She's not worth it because she has hurt you three times now, and she does not appreciate all you have done for her AND the fact that you have taken her back so many times. She won't change. Maybe it's not her you miss, but companionship. You need to pick yourself up and move on. Otherwise, you have only got yourself to blame when she keeps hurting you over and over again. NC is a good start. If she happens to contact her, TELL HER how you are feeling. That may show you if she really does care for you or not, though by the way she's treating you, I doubt it.
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