Feeling confused

[reozeno]

I met a girl recently. i work in a shop and she came to my shop with her friend, and thats how we met.she's nice and base from what i saw, she seems interested in me. We met couple of time and shows these signs.

 

1. She said she not seeing anyone.

2.She giggle alot when we talk

3.She maintain eye contact.

4.Had alot of topic talked about like family and her past(not love thingy but like her life)

5.Have a long chat like an hour.

6. Didn't reply any message when we talk.

7.When in a group, she pull me away to talk alone with me.

 

Now, regardless of what happen, we haven't exchange phone number. Because i have to serve my customers sometime so she just left just saying goodbye without exchange our number. But i do add her from instagram.

 

There we had couple of chat, and she actually agree to meet up again and she did specifically said want only to come to the shop if im there. I see this as an amazing sign.

 

But today, she post something on her IG story, which telling how she loves somebody and referred the man as Mr N. Now, my name doesn't start from letter N.

I felt weird and confuse.

 

Did i misjudge the situation? or am i thinking too much? Help!

(Apologize if English is bad)

[victoria88]

In my opinion when a girl says she wants to come ONLY if you are in this shop, this is 100% a sign that she likes you (it can be than she even loves you).

 

Your confusion is understandable, but did she post a picture of this man- Mr. N?

 

Perhaps she means she loves someone (Mr. New for example). It does not mean his name really starts with N (well I do not know what is going on in her heart of course and in her life).

 

Be careful with the following: there are women who date more than one man (this is quite bad). It would be up to you to find out if she is this kind of girl. I hope this is not the case.

 

If there is another guy (Mr. N) then well it looks like she loves one man and really likes another one (you).

 

p.s. I am a girl and trust me even I do not understand sometimes other women's behaviour (for example: when I read about how other women treat men)...

[reozeno]

@victoria

 

She didn't post his photo but a quote photo. The words written in the photo are I Love You and i dont want to lose you because I have been better since i met you. She later put her words middle of the photo Thank You Mr. N.

 

It could be anything tbh. But, i dont think it's me. There's a possibility it's me due i did say in a chat im nobody*(it will be long if i explain why i said dat). But im very confused with it. But thanks for the output. I guess ill just meet her n see how it goes. haha

[preraph]

She's calling him Mr., so maybe it's a professor or boss. Just ask her. But first just ask her out if she's still coming in. Just hand her a pen and paper and tell her to put her number on it.

[jellybean824]

It's understandable that you would be confused, since, as you say, she is sending all these signals that indicate she may be interested in you. However, nothing definitive has happened; as in, you haven't officially "asked her out." I understand there may be some nervousness on your part to move forward, especially after her IG post. The only way to get to the bottom of this is to ask her directly. Otherwise, you are left with speculation. Best of luck.

[smackie9]

I agree, if you like a person, you don't spend weeks pondering their signals. Just ask then out. Keep it simple, say go for a coffee spend like 45 mins to an hour, feel them out, ask them out again or not. Confidence wins the girl...the bolder you are your success rate goes up.

[LonelyInsomniac]

As others said: ask her out.

 

If she's got her heart set on someone else, she's got her heart set on someone else. Nothing wrong with asking, and as long as you're not salivating down her neck afterward, your friendship should be fine.

 

If she doesn't (or it's actually you) and says yes? Awesome. You two just moved from pining to dining.