byefelicia Posted November 1, 2016 Posted November 1, 2016 I hate one of my boyfriend's family member. Why do I hate him? Because he made multiple comments about me, saying things that aren't true. Why did he do that? I honestly don't know, I've been nothing but nice to him. And what made me sad is that my boyfriend didn't defend me, or say anything back. Now he's forcing me to attend his family events where this family member will always be present. My boyfriend and I have been arguing back and forth about this. I feel like I will never get over the fact that he never stood up for me when I would've done it for him. I honestly don't feel happy at all. I hate his family member's so much.
Miss Clavel Posted November 1, 2016 Posted November 1, 2016 I hate one of my boyfriend's family member. Why do I hate him? Because he made multiple comments about me, saying things that aren't true. Why did he do that? I honestly don't know, I've been nothing but nice to him. And what made me sad is that my boyfriend didn't defend me, or say anything back. Now he's forcing me to attend his family events where this family member will always be present. My boyfriend and I have been arguing back and forth about this. I feel like I will never get over the fact that he never stood up for me when I would've done it for him. I honestly don't feel happy at all. I hate his family member's so much. hate is a very strong word. are you sure nothing can be done? talk to your boyfriend again. agree on how to handle his family member. then maybe, give it one last shot? go to the family event and if someone starts on you see if your BF does anything about it. if he doesn't defend you, defend yourself and put a stop to these rumors. corner whoever is talking about you saying things that aren't true and ask him to stop. calmly. after that, if they don't treat you better you might consider if you really want to be in this family. 1
Gaeta Posted November 1, 2016 Posted November 1, 2016 Is this all rumors or this person really treated you badly in front of your boyfriend? What exactly happened and was said? You have to be careful if it's just someone that reported to you that so-and-so said ABC about you.
preraph Posted November 1, 2016 Posted November 1, 2016 You're right. There's something wrong with him that he's not standing up for you and God only knows what he tells this offensive family member when you're not around. It's got to be one of two things: He's either spineless or he agrees with them and is two-faced. Dump him.
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