HyperHyper Posted November 1, 2016 Posted November 1, 2016 Okay! From the top! This year is my first year in college, and I fell in love with this girl in my art class. At first I was thinking she was out of my league, (Cause I'm a nerd, and she didn't seem like one and two she spoke to no one, unless spoken to.) But in a turn of events when I mentioned this game to another friend she spoke to me, and I was surprised that it turns out we both love the same game. So I ended up asking her to play the online game with me sometime and she said sure. Every now and then we would play. (Like once or twice a week.) Time passed into October. Once the semester ends, I probably won't have another chance at her, and I rushed a bit. And I asked her to come see a movie with me. (Doctor Strange, since it seemed like she wanted to see it.) And shockingly she said sure. Well that's Saturday, And I'm thinking, hell, should I just say I like her at this point? It's become kinda, obvious. (And I'm kinda freaking out on the inside. I lock up around my crush. Even just texting her. Not to mention I hate crowds, so going to the mall's movie theater is killing me on the inside [Anxiety {Thought not enough to faint or anything} is no fun ya know]. XDD ;-; ) (That's why I thought the movies was a good decision, during movies speaking is rare. And since it's Marvel, we would have Something to talk about, and usually once I get the ball rolling, I'm 'unlocked' per say.) And honestly I can't tell if she likes me or not: The reasons why I think she likes me: Out of the time in the college art class, She approached to speak to me twice, considering she never initiates a conversation with anyone. We both have common interests, we're both artists lol... She's usually smiling while we speaking, but hell, who frowns while they speak? I showed her where I am strongest. (In the art class, I kinda ended up as the popular kid. As the best artist in there and since usually other people come talk to me I'm consistently unlocked and never get to the point of panicking. Not to mention a majority of the people in there like anime and I'm Japanese.) And not: Hmmm... There was a point when I texted her and she never texted back, and when I reminded her a few days later, she seemed to have forgotten. She really doesn't talk that much and I usually end up initiating things. I'm a nervous wreck, and usually, people can tell when I'm panicking on the inside. (I used to constantly get asked, if I'm alright, I'm much better since then but still.) (And around my Crush I definitely panicked once (We were playing cards in a College lobby) Thankfully she didn't ask if I freaked out or something.) SO YEAH. Basically I just want to ask what do you guys think? I think waiting is a good idea (About telling her that I like her). Somehow I feel like she hasn't quite warmed up to me yet. But I'm down to the last two months x.x It's only been two months since we met too. And this is the first time we've ever hung out in this setting, I feel like it should be the next time we hang out.' But when will that be?' is what I'm worried about. (Sorry this is like my first post and kinda came out like this XDDD)
preraph Posted November 1, 2016 Posted November 1, 2016 No, you should NOT say you like her. It's never anything but awkward and cowardly sounding. You should SHOW her you want to be romantic and not just friends while going to the movie by acting the proper gentleman and keeping your hand on her back to guide her to the seating, buying her popcorn, and leaning into her during the movie to see if she leans back or just pulls away. If she is comfy with you leaning into her, great. If she pulls away and straightens up in her seat, she's just a friend. If she was comfortable with you touching her back on the way in and comfortable with you leaning shoulders with her in the movie (don't go to one with the separate recliners!!) , then take her hand and lead her out of the theater and then drop it and don't just keep that up once out. But give her a kiss on the mouth, a little one, unless she comes in for a second, when you drop her off after your date. Good luck!
Author HyperHyper Posted November 1, 2016 Author Posted November 1, 2016 Good idea. I don't know about guiding her to a seat, and touching her back, might be a bit overkill (If she's shy in the way I think she is, she probably wouldn't like that). If I remember correctly, I think there are arm rests in that theater so I can't pull off leaning into her. maybe holding hands in the theater is easier. (Unsure) But perhaps holding hands shouldn't be too hard. (I may say this, but what's like a signal to hold hands? Like I feel like grabbing her hand randomly, is just not expected of me I guess I can say?)
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