venusinlibra Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 We never officially ended, but we're never exclusive. He is very insecure and admitted to having low confidence. Previously, each time we'd get close, he'd pull away, but pop back up. As we got more serious and he became more vulnerable, it seems like he started trying to avoid me. The Halloween party behavior has me confused. We chatted and got all affectionate with each other, and I introduced him to a friend who came with me. I said to my friend "he's the guy I was telling you about who lives down the street from me who I was telling you about". He replied "oh, that's who I am, huh?", almost as if he seemed bothered that I minimized our relationship. I met a few others at the party and we both migrated around, me more so since he is fairly shy. It was a small house and he seemed to try to be on other side of rooms where I was. Like, the kitchen and dining room were together and he went by the kitchen when I was by the dining room. But he kept looking at me and watching what I was doing. He seemed to work overtime in trying to stay on opposing sides while still keeping me in view. Why is this?
gorf Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 We never officially ended, but we're never exclusive. He is very insecure and admitted to having low confidence. Previously, each time we'd get close, he'd pull away, but pop back up. As we got more serious and he became more vulnerable, it seems like he started trying to avoid me. The Halloween party behavior has me confused. We chatted and got all affectionate with each other, and I introduced him to a friend who came with me. I said to my friend "he's the guy I was telling you about who lives down the street from me who I was telling you about". He replied "oh, that's who I am, huh?", almost as if he seemed bothered that I minimized our relationship. I met a few others at the party and we both migrated around, me more so since he is fairly shy. It was a small house and he seemed to try to be on other side of rooms where I was. Like, the kitchen and dining room were together and he went by the kitchen when I was by the dining room. But he kept looking at me and watching what I was doing. He seemed to work overtime in trying to stay on opposing sides while still keeping me in view. Why is this? He probably doesnt trust your level of integrity and believe you are being honest with him. So he wanted to loose your sight on him while you got involved with the party, drank, whatever, and see if you mess with other guys.
Author venusinlibra Posted October 31, 2016 Author Posted October 31, 2016 He probably doesnt trust your level of integrity and believe you are being honest with him. So he wanted to loose your sight on him while you got involved with the party, drank, whatever, and see if you mess with other guys. Makes sense. Do you think he was watching me because he still likes me? Perhaps he is trying to see if he trusts me enough to move forward....
Space Ritual Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 It really doesn't matter. I would not move forward with him. There is a sense of creepiness there when he would make himself appear at the other end of the room giving you the stink eye. Those actions are indicative of a passive/aggressive type who would probably keep a running tab in a notebook of your relationship and whip it out at certain times to show you ll the check marks in it that represented each time you had disappointed him. he was doing what he was doing is tht in his mind he does not rust you and he was hoping to catch wind of you either hitting on somebody else or talking smack about him. Hoverers like him are second only to Sidlers in the creep department. At east Sidles are inconspicuous about it. lol. 1
smackie9 Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 Stay away from wishy washy guys.....they will never change...move on.
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