Author RainbowRose Posted October 31, 2016 Author Posted October 31, 2016 Sounds to me like he was trying to de-escalate the situation. When you say that you don't feel heard, backed up or respected by your boyfriend, how often do you feel this way? Almost never except when it comes to his ex girlfriend.
Author RainbowRose Posted October 31, 2016 Author Posted October 31, 2016 I agree with a lot of posters here. But, btw.. have you ever considered other peoples perspectives to possible be true?: that you are an overly-emotional overly-dramatic woman who isnt good at debating and winning arguments? Maybe his idea of keeping the peace is actually keeping you from getting wriled up cause he knows you will stir a pot of fuss that you cant simmer down, and he would rather you be quiet? Just a thought. In general. But thats about him not defending in general. Could be the case. The thing with the ex is a whole different non-related story in comparison. Why is she insulting you and all this??...... why in the world is she even talking at all. She should be blocked and gone out of his life. I think that should be your bigger focus concerning her. 3 months, he still has feelings. Why do I know this? Cause he values her opinion enough not to block her out. And as a result, allows her comments of judgement on the girl he is dating. I would not be ok with this if I were you Hey yes of course I considered that it might be true which is why I posted on here to see what others thought. On reflection though his friend was being rude. I only made two statements in that whole debate; (1) the comment challenging his opinion and (2) the comment standing up for myself when he said that my opinion was the worst he's heard. I didn't let it go on past that.
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