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She doesn't seem interested in this date.


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She agreed happily (Friday night) asked her today when to meet up tomorrow and she said "idk yet"...I may be overreacting .

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You would get a better response if you proposed something i.e. Let's meet at x time to do y. You have given her nothing to show enthusiasm for.

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You would get a better response if you proposed something i.e. Let's meet at x time to do y. You have given her nothing to show enthusiasm for.

 

This.

 

I'd respond "so, I've been meaning to try x restaurant. I was thinking 7pm. Come join me!"

 

She'll either:

 

a) Respond she can't. If she does, look for her to counteroffer you. If not, she's not interested.

 

b) She's on board. Great!

 

c) Won't respond at all. Then, she sucks and move on.

 

d) Says she "doesn't know." If this is the case, text back, "let me know when you know for sure." Then she how she responds after that (her response will be something from a-c).

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I'd move on. She puts more thought into her choice of which brand of ketchup to buy than the response to you. That would make me think she sees you as a burden, I have a feeling you'll get the old, something came up at the last minute/maybe next weekend response if you pursue.

 

It's on her now, I'd bet she won't be contacting you to let you know either way and I would never try to force a date with her.

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