LostDarkSoul Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 Meet her 10 months ago, got her number and started chatting... only to realize she likes someone else. I haven't chat with her for quite sometime already due to an argument. She send me a text asking me whether I want to go for a event and said she sent it on accident. I told my friend about it and my friend told her. She said I was annoying and she delete my message, contact number and told me not to message her anymore, likewise she won't message me. However, my friend told me he wanted to go for the event recently and he helped me ask my crush(the girl) and she said she don't mind me going with her and a group of friends. However, when my friend created a Whatsapp group with me inside, she instantly left... Right now, a part of me tells me to give up on her. Another part of me wants me to continue chasing her. WHY??? Last time, when I was messaging her, she would give short replies and in school, she will pretend I don't exist or just ignore me like she does on Whatsapp. Really? I love her and yet I want to give up on her... There's one time after exams, me and my friends were outside and when she saw me, she instantly turns behind and walk away. There's another time when she's alone studying and I ask if I could accompany her. She agreed and told me where she was studying and I went to study with her. Every time I think I was getting closer to her, I kept reminding myself she love someone else and I had to back off. My friends told me I was good, even her friends said I was decent. Why is she treating me like this? There's even one time she ask me why don't I chase her friend which I am closer to. She kept saying her friend was better than her and ask me to chase her friend. I told her she was prettier and she told me to like her friend for who she is. Then I asked her " Do you want me to give up chasing you? " She said " Idk " What is she trying to do? One moment, she makes me think that I am getting closer to getting her. Next moment, she ditches me. I have also gave her a birthday present and during that moment, it was awkward for us both. There's one time I looked at her friend's phone. I saw the message between her and her crush... She was so happy when her crush wish her happy birthday and asked her to study together. What's more her crush didn't even give her a present. Right now, I really am lost, anyone care to help me? Should I give up or not? a part of me tells me to give up on her. Another part of me wants me to continue chasing her(thanks for taking your time to read this)
Herbalist Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 I think you should move on from her, yes. 1
JewelD Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 Give up! Who cares what her friends or your friends think? Clearly she's not interested in you. She said you were annoying and asked you to leave her alone. How much more proof do you need? 1
smackie9 Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 Good lord leave the poor girl alone. Doesn't matter if you are a great guy, she's not attracted to you, she wants nothing to do with you. Rejection means NO, not try harder.
victoria88 Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 I want to ask if you think she has a crush on another guy or if she has clearly said so. Do not forget that women are sometimes trying to make men jealous (pretending they like someone else). Also do not forget to observe her reactions when she talks to you (you will see if she likes you or not). Another thing to remember : if she has seen you with another girl (wow, then she may be jealous and/or hurt). From all the information you wrote some people will tell you, forget about her and find someone who likes you. I am the eternal romantic so I will advise you the following: find out directly from her if she likes you or not. In other words, if you really like (or even love) her do NOT give up on her. I will give you an example: I often talk to colleagues and trust me it does not mean that I feel attraction for them. I feel attraction for someone I rarely talk to (because of my feelings). Once again, try to understand (from first hand) if she really loves someone else (If yes, then well you can stay far from her).
lakerman34 Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 If a girl says "leave me alone," she pretty much always means it. For some reason, we guys think that that means "try to find another way to get to her heart." No. This isn't a rom-com. This is real life. She isn't interested. Sorry.
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