jen1447 Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 Exactly! I'm so surprised at all the negative posts. Seems that this kind of openess is rare in many relationships... No offense to anyone but there's a lot of hangups out there when it comes to 'potty' matters (a lot of it I suspect bc those manners are typically hammered into you as a child). My advice is just let it roll off your back. Everybody has their things in life. I've actually used the toilet test as a compatibility gauge btw - if they run screaming from a peeing woman they prob won't be real likely to meet some of my other challenges! 2
No_Go Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 Of course SO can bear the sight of a peeing person, the question is what for? Sexual acts are a whole different game. I don't know a person licking body orifices or close up viewing of bodily parts outside of a sexual act. I have zero repulsion from bodily fluids or sights of any anatomical parts , but just find it bizarre to do it just for the act of doing it. E.g. I love french kissing and obviously there is a massive exchange of saliva, but I will not lick the saliva if my partner spits somewhere because I enjoy the saliva on its own and/or I'm not repulsed. I also don't think any partner will watch a delivery close up (unless he's a ObGyn and assisting the delivery) - they stay in the room on the head side so do not enjoy the view of episiotomy, vaginal tearing or spontaneous bowel movements. So, a SO can witness uninhibited wild monkey sex, put his/her fingers and tongue in various areas of the body, learn the most secret of kinks and quirks, perhaps even watch birth (which is so incredibly messy), but somehow peeing in the same room is a line too far? 1
GorillaTheater Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 The bathroom is the only place I ever get any privacy or alone time at the house. Intrude on that at your peril. 2
Wade Lamare Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 Meh. Wife often takes a pee while I'm using the shower, or she comes and empties the washing basket. I usually give her the "woo hooo" and do the helicopter willy thing while I'm showering. 2
Sunkissedpatio Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 I ask because sometimes you have to RUN to the bathroom and don't have time to close the door. Or you close it but it doesn't shut, and there's a teeny crack. Basically, how important is it to make the effort to have the door closed when otherwise it may not be convenient? And what's this about WANTING to pee in front of my partner? People really do get ahead of themselves sometimes That's not what you asked in the OP. Now you are saying "as an accident"well then you don't need to give it premeditated thought. It'll happen if it happens, that's what accidents are. No issue with peeling itself it's the "planning to introduce it as a next step in a rel." that I find unnecessary/bizarre. 1
Wade Lamare Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 Exactly! I'm so surprised at all the negative posts. Seems that this kind of openess is rare in many relationships... And what's this about WANTING to pee in front of my partner? My wife had a (to me) funny thing she used to like to do, hasn't done it in a while though. She used to like to take me for a pee. She would hold and point my willy for me. Said she could feel me peeing. Never any inclination for golden showers though, on either side.
Haydn Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 Yes I accept accidents do happen. I'd let that pass (no pun intended) anything pre-meditate is considered 1st degree murder as far as I'm concerned. Kids get a pass... My neices still pee in front of me and if I'm in the room too they want me to stick around, but as another poster said they will grow out of that soonsince peeing in privacy is something most children grow out of when we hit adulthood. You mean, you still don`t get the urge to fart in a lift..... The old SBD....(Silent but deadly) Farting is funny as ..... Obviously not at Sunday lunch..... 1
Marco Valerio Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 Why would people feel comfortable by doing those things?...well, why would they feel uncomfortable? Isn't it something natural? Maybe it gets to the day where you'll have to change your lover's diapers. Will it disgust you then? Don't look for the chance on purpose. If it happens happens. 3
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