Hopeful30 Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 There's a point where you get to such a closeness and comfort that it is no longer necesarry to close the door. I'm there, I can leave it open, but I'm not sure how my partner will react. Any way to introduce this into the relationship?
BaileyB Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 Why would you ever want this? A little privacy in the bathroom is good for a relationship. The door should always be, at least mostly, closed. 4
Gaeta Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 After 1 year dating we just went through that mile-stone. BF has no problem I get in the bathroom while he is doing his business. As for me, the door is closed and will remain closed till I die :-) 4
ExpatInItaly Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 Yeah, no. I see no reason to try to prove your closeness by leaving the door open while performing bodily functions. 6
No_Go Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 I don't see a big deal but why ? I mean if there is a reason (you're watching something through the door, he needs to grab something), then ok. If you had sex he has seen you with your pants down so no big deal. Otherwise - urine, feces and flatulence and the related smells and sounds are normal but quite non-romantic.. 2
ChickiePops Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 Is this a fetish for you? Is that why you care? No sarcasm..actual question. 2
MJJean Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 I think it happened within a few months of dating. We were having a lively conversation, I had to pee, he followed me and stood at the door talking, it felt natural, and that was that. Now, we both pee while the other is there talking or in the shower or standing in front of the mirror grooming. We've never left the door open or followed each other into the bathroom for #2 unless one of us was really sick and needed help. 2
Sunkissedpatio Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 As for me, never. Same goes with farting and #2 with door open ewwww Some things are best kept a mystery. How to introduce peeing with door open, just ask. Your partner might agee but still get turned off inside. Why would you even want to introduce this? 3
preraph Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 It stinks, yes, even pee. Close the door. If it's stiflingly hot in there or something, then use another bathroom far away from where the spouse is ensconced and leave the door partway open. Don't ever do it right in the room with them. It's so not sexy. This is why it's good to have two restrooms.
Blackened Heart Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 Does peeing out in the woods or a bush count?
Alamo657 Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 Why in the world would people feel comfortable witnessing peeing or more from anyone beyond the age of 6 is beyond me.
Haydn Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 As for me, never. Same goes with farting and #2 with door open ewwww Some things are best kept a mystery. How to introduce peeing with door open, just ask. Your partner might agee but still get turned off inside. Why would you even want to introduce this? Serious fartage..... Sort of okay... I don`t mean walking into a room and making a gesture. (Just things that happen) Oops a little one slipped out. Nobody smoke..... Mind you , my kids have no problem dropping one.... 1
Gloria25 Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 Why is there a "need" to introduce peeing and/or defecating in front of your SO? Now granted, Hustler has some kinky stuff with women peeing - but we're talking about something that is not kink or fetish, no? Look, I don't believe in all this "openness" - as if there should be no limits as to what you do with/infront of your SO, as if the lack of limits will create this indestructible bond. One time I was watching a guy I was seeking shave in the bathroom. Him standing there in his boxer-shorts was the epitome of sexy. Watching your SO, get all cleaned up is hot....watching him take a dump - NOT. Yes, I've had times that while a guy I'm seeing - even my mum - was in the shower I'd pop in and pee, but that's usually an emergency and I can't hold it. It's not like I'm standing outside their bathroom just waiting for the right moment to pee while they're bathing. And vice-versa, I've had times with dude I'm seeing taking a pee (standing) and I come in quickly to jump in the shower and/or like brush my teeth. Again, not planned and/or intended. When you get too familiar with your partner, you're gonna kill the romance. So no, you're not gonna catch me intentionally blowing farts, defecating, doing my toe nails infront of my SO. Now, me getting nice and cute - YES. 2
Shanex Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 Close the door, I need neither the view and odors, whether you are peeing or taking a cr@p. 1
MJJean Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 Why in the world would people feel comfortable witnessing peeing or more from anyone beyond the age of 6 is beyond me. So, a SO can witness uninhibited wild monkey sex, put his/her fingers and tongue in various areas of the body, learn the most secret of kinks and quirks, perhaps even watch birth (which is so incredibly messy), but somehow peeing in the same room is a line too far? 2
Got it Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 Sorry, been married twice, and have had a child and have not and will not pee in front of anyone. Shoot, I can't recall when I stopped doing it in front of my siblings it was that long ago! There are some things that I prefer privacy on.
Sunkissedpatio Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 (edited) Serious fartage..... Sort of okay... I don`t mean walking into a room and making a gesture. (Just things that happen) Oops a little one slipped out. Nobody smoke..... Mind you , my kids have no problem dropping one.... Yes I accept accidents do happen. I'd let that pass (no pun intended) anything pre-meditate is considered 1st degree murder as far as I'm concerned. Kids get a pass... My neices still pee in front of me and if I'm in the room too they want me to stick around, but as another poster said they will grow out of that soonsince peeing in privacy is something most children grow out of when we hit adulthood. Edited October 31, 2016 by Sunkissedpatio 1
jen1447 Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 When can you pee with the door open? Day 1 in my world. Any way to introduce this into the relationship? That depends on his sensibilities ....if you think he's the sort who wouldn't care, don't ask or "introduce" it, just do it. If he would care, it's really not sth you should try to bring him around to anyway so I'd just forget it and stay status quo. 2
oasis Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 Too much familiarity will quickly murder romance. So all bathroom habits should be kept as far as possible from your romantic interest. 1
Author Hopeful30 Posted October 31, 2016 Author Posted October 31, 2016 So, a SO can witness uninhibited wild monkey sex, put his/her fingers and tongue in various areas of the body, learn the most secret of kinks and quirks, perhaps even watch birth (which is so incredibly messy), but somehow peeing in the same room is a line too far? Exactly! I'm so surprised at all the negative posts. Seems that this kind of openess is rare in many relationships... And why are people bringing up taking a crap? The question specifically talks about peeing. I ask because sometimes you have to RUN to the bathroom and don't have time to close the door. Or you close it but it doesn't shut, and there's a teeny crack. Basically, how important is it to make the effort to have the door closed when otherwise it may not be convenient? And what's this about WANTING to pee in front of my partner? People really do get ahead of themselves sometimes 1
Taramere Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 Exactly! I'm so surprised at all the negative posts. Seems that this kind of openess is rare in many relationships... I don't know that openness is necessarily measured by whether or not you pee in front of another person. Feeling able to ask that person how they feel about it is maybe a better measure. If you've asked him how he feels about it, and he says he feels fine about it, then who cares what anybody else thinks?
Michelle ma Belle Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 I don't ever think about it. And I don't think it's something one deliberately 'plans' unless it's a secret fetish. It just kind of unfolds naturally or at least it always has in my relationships. So often my partner will be the one who will come into the bathroom while I'm doing my hair or putting on my makeup and take a piss. He usually is the one to initiates the 'openness' but I have no complaints. I mean I don't necessarily want to see my man clenching down as he's having a serious bowel movement or anything which is a bit different than peeing in my world. I have no issues with peeing in front of each other. I actually love it but then again I enjoy watersports as a rule so that kind of stuff doesn't freak me out in the least when I'm gaga about someone. To each their own. 2
No_Go Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 Hah, because your post was : There's a point where you get to such a closeness and comfort that it is no longer necesarry to close the door. I'm there, I can leave it open, but I'm not sure how my partner will react. 'No longer necessary' at least in my understanding suggests intentional leaving the door open. Obviously from all the responses - if it is an emergency / unintentional - it is not a big deal (especially if you've already been intimate). But doing it intentionally - not that it is a big deal, but wth you think is some measure of closeness? I'm sure he knows you pee, dump and fart in the bathroom, the real deal is why would he be willing to witness it. Exactly! I'm so surprised at all the negative posts. Seems that this kind of openess is rare in many relationships... And why are people bringing up taking a crap? The question specifically talks about peeing. I ask because sometimes you have to RUN to the bathroom and don't have time to close the door. Or you close it but it doesn't shut, and there's a teeny crack. Basically, how important is it to make the effort to have the door closed when otherwise it may not be convenient? And what's this about WANTING to pee in front of my partner? People really do get ahead of themselves sometimes
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