Maddie2011 Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 Hi...I'm new here. This weekend the man I have been with broke up with me, he said he felt alone and I was always busy. What prompted it was he wanted to take the afternoon off of work to hang out. I couldn't...I had a lot going on. We have been together for 6 months. We live about 10 miles apart, we text and call a lot thru the day and see each other 1-2x a week. When I met him he said he was divorced turned out separated, he says he's not going back to her. We both have said we love each other....I had him meet my family last week, he has never introduced me to his kids (late teens and 20's) and his divorce keeps getting pushed back due to money? etc, I know I'm better off but feel so sad.
ExpatInItaly Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 I can understand him not introducing you to his kids yet. 6 month isn't very long and he probably saw that it wasn't really progressing. How often did you initiate plans, and were there a lot of cancellations or changed plans leading up to this? I have feeling this isn't based on one busy afternoon. 1
Author Maddie2011 Posted October 30, 2016 Author Posted October 30, 2016 We both have day jobs...he has stuff with his kid who is in school...football games. Etc. I go to the gym a few nights a week but offered to go before work. There have been a few cancellations by either one for valid reasons.....a part of me thinks it was too much meeting his family and he will never get the divorce. He gets to keep his money ....have a girlfriend on the side
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