mysticalstar Posted July 11, 2005 Posted July 11, 2005 Hello Everyone! I wont make this long!! I was just wondering what some of you out there think and if you think I might be a little over-reacting. Well I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months..(we have a great relationship) but about a month ago he had to move 7 hours from me to work for the summer. We haven't seen each other in a month and are planning on seeing each other in about 3 weeks. We talk everyday and say we love each other. But lately I have just been wondering and thinking about who he talks to behind my back and what he says. For some reason I can not stop thinking that he could be talking to other girls. He never gave me a reason to think like this and I am probably over-reacting....but it is not fun to think like this. I trust him and he is moving back in August once school starts back up but do you think I should worry about that?? Or am I just being plain old dumb!! And do you think I should ask him if he talks to other girls or should I just let things go and not say anything? Thanks so much for your advice!
laRubiaBonita Posted July 11, 2005 Posted July 11, 2005 sooo he should ignore wvery body with a vigina? how will that be possible? and if he is not to talk to any women you should be allwed to talk with any other men.....Right? has he shown himself to be untrust worthy in the past? feeling this way will emit.....knowling or not. plus it will just eat you up with wonder, worry, and distrust. Is your relationship worth all this emotional turmoil you are putting yourself through? can you talk it out with him? can you be more liberal (see others), when he leaves? what are his thoughts about your future?
westernxer Posted July 11, 2005 Posted July 11, 2005 It's normal to worry about this, but don't lose sleep over it. Doesn't mean he will or won't do anything behind your back, but true love has to be tested. Well, here's your test...
Dasani Posted July 11, 2005 Posted July 11, 2005 Originally posted by mysticalstar I trust him and he is moving back in August once school starts back up but do you think I should worry about that?? Or am I just being plain old dumb!! the latter
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