zam_30 Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 Background Story: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/595639-she-broke-up-me-because-she-wants-me-happy-can-i-save-my-relationship#post7056533 Hi guys, thanks for the advice that was given ^. As what the title stated, do i still have a shot at this relationship? In the 3 weeks we broke up, i tried giving her space and time for her to think and she told me that instead of giving her space and time, it's better for me to just explain to her stuffs. Thankfully, now our relationship is not official yet but there's somethings bothering me. She told me that she don't need a relationship to confirm/know the feelings for each other are genuine. She also said that doesn't mean us getting back together will resolve all the problems and differences we had in the relationship. She also said is it not enough to know that we both are not in a relationship, but i still do love you? I love you and of course i want to be your girlfriend, but i don't prioritize that over everything?" basically this is what she said and i'm kind of bothered by it. What do i do? Do i give her time? At one point she said to me, "you don;t deserve a girl like me who often thinks about life isn't worth living". Do i give her time and space? When did i ask her to be my girlfriend back? As what i can see, she's currently in a state of very sad and i tried to dig whats wrong with her, but she doesn't want to tell me..
Marc878 Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 What relationship? Nothing there. Move on already 1
Author zam_30 Posted October 30, 2016 Author Posted October 30, 2016 Is there no more relationship? She still says she love me though everyday. She also said,"No one will ever love me like you do. I must stick with you" Why is it she's still like this? 1
DarrenB Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 Is there no more relationship? She still says she love me though everyday. She also said,"No one will ever love me like you do. I must stick with you" Why is it she's still like this? Not for now, no. You need to give both her and yourself enough time and space in order to even consider reconciling with each other. Otherwise, you'll be left in the same predicament you are currently in. 1
Author zam_30 Posted October 30, 2016 Author Posted October 30, 2016 Not for now, no. You need to give both her and yourself enough time and space in order to even consider reconciling with each other. Otherwise, you'll be left in the same predicament you are currently in. What is the right time for me to ask her? She's going through a hard time now and told me that life isn't worth living. All i'm trying now is to be there for her whenever she needs me. But anyways, is there any right time?
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