That Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 For the last few months my fiance has become very lazy in the bedroom. He was never really into giving oral, but he would every once in awhile, that has completely gone out the window. It's whatever. He has a bad back to the point of needing a cane for assistance sometimes so I'm stuck always being on top. I'm not thrilled about it, but I love him and will work around it. Buuut, when we go to have sex he expects me to just jump right on him. I've ask him to play with me a little, get me excited, help the juices flow but he won't. He says I should just want him. He won't even make out with me or kiss my neck. Just lame little kisses. He says he never had to do that with other girls. I don't know what else to say to him. We're at the point now where we don't have sex because I'll ask him to get me warmed up for a few minutes and he says forget it, you don't love me or want me. I'm so frustrated, mentally and sexually.
Gaeta Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 For the last few months my fiance has become very lazy in the bedroom. He was never really into giving oral, but he would every once in awhile, that has completely gone out the window. It's whatever. He has a bad back to the point of needing a cane for assistance sometimes so I'm stuck always being on top. I'm not thrilled about it, but I love him and will work around it. Buuut, when we go to have sex he expects me to just jump right on him. I've ask him to play with me a little, get me excited, help the juices flow but he won't. He says I should just want him. He won't even make out with me or kiss my neck. Just lame little kisses. He says he never had to do that with other girls. I don't know what else to say to him. We're at the point now where we don't have sex because I'll ask him to get me warmed up for a few minutes and he says forget it, you don't love me or want me. I'm so frustrated, mentally and sexually. You are not serious about marrying this man I hope. It's time to terminate this relationship. He has zero affection for you that's the problem. A man that desires his GF will take time to touch and kiss her. All he is doing is use you to dump his load in you (sorry for my French). That's all he is interested in. 2
Satu Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 snip For the last few months my fiance has become very lazy in the bedroom. I'm so frustrated, mentally and sexually. Project this situation forward into the future - 5 years, 10 years, and then decide if it's a good idea to marry him or not. I know what my decision would be... 1
BluesPower Posted October 30, 2016 Posted October 30, 2016 Gaeta is right... That is not the way that you make love to a woman under any circumstances. You really need to think about staying with him. Is he taking pain pills for his back? How old are you guys. Like Satu says, if it is like that now what will it be in the future. I am thinking you really need to end this. 2
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