Did I make the right decision to not want to be in a relationship with this guy?

[makeuploverxo]

I met this guy at a party. He told me that he is in love with me the first day he met me and we made out on the first day that we met. I expressed feelings for him during the party and we had a strong connection during the party but I don't see myself being in a relationship with him. We kissed on the lips and he also kissed me on the cheek a lot and he told me that he loves me. He told me that I was the right girl for him and he told me that he wanted to be in a relationship with me. He seemed to be in love with me when he just met me. I feel like he was moving too fast. The problem is that he doesn't have a driver's license, a job and a car. He also smokes cigerettes a lot which is a turn off for me. I texted him after the party saying that I am not interested in a relationship with him and I prefer for me and him to be friends and he was ok with it. I prefer to be in a relationship with a guy that has a car, has a job and doesn't smoke cigerettes. I want to date other guys and see pick one that I want to be in a relationship with. Was it wrong of me to not want to be in a relationship with him because I have standards when it comes to deciding to be in a relationship with a guy?

[Gaeta]

You did the right thing.

 

This guy was hoping to find himself a sugarmama and you did not fall for it. If I were you I would not maintain a friendship with him. He will still want to take advantage of you somehow.

[michaelm700]

Hell no! The guy might have just been playing you to get you into bed or he is highly immature.

 

You did good. You're not a cold person. Always trust your instincts don't fall for nonsense talk.