Father'sGentleFlower Posted October 29, 2016 Posted October 29, 2016 I've been with my boyfriend for almost 10 months now, 8 of which were long distance. He moved down with his parents and lives 10 minutes away from me,mount even now I don't see much of him since I'm pretty stressed out with college. I'd like to spend time with him but I have no car so I can only see him when he decides to come over. He's really sweet but I've been a bit distant lately. I usually show a lot of affection when I message him and I love him but I'm not feeling it lately, even when he tells me that he feels like coming over, gets my hopes up, and then doesn't because he doesn't feel well or he's been drinking with his friends. I feel pretty lonely do I try to hang out with my roommates and friends but that only works sometimes. I'm the type of person that needs physical touch frequently or else I'm feeling a bit down in the dumps. It's been about two weeks since my boyfriend has been sick and I'm not feeling so uplifted. I don't even have the stuffed rabbit I cuddle with because I let him have while he gets better. I don't how to feel better, I don't like being alone for so long.
spiderowl Posted October 29, 2016 Posted October 29, 2016 Sounds like your boyfriend is not the kind of partner that suits you. He doesn't meet your needs and is not spending enough time with you. I think you would be better off finding someone else. You are not feeling enthusiastic for him because he is letting you down. Pay attention to those feelings - this is the way this guy makes you feel. If you stay with him, you get more of that. I'm sure you'll find someone better.
Author Father'sGentleFlower Posted October 30, 2016 Author Posted October 30, 2016 Sounds like your boyfriend is not the kind of partner that suits you. He doesn't meet your needs and is not spending enough time with you. I think you would be better off finding someone else. You are not feeling enthusiastic for him because he is letting you down. Pay attention to those feelings - this is the way this guy makes you feel. If you stay with him, you get more of that. I'm sure you'll find someone better. I mean he has been sick lately, he's a great boyfriend. The problem is that I feel like I'm stuck in a rut because I don't really have time to make new friends to be there in his absence. I think it gets to me because after such a long time being away from him, it feels pretty awful to go so long without seeing him, if anything it's just poor planning. For example, I got to see him last night and we were both hanging out at his friend's house and we all got drunk, so I spent most of the time knocked out while they all played video games. He said he was going to spend the day with me but he still isn't 100% plus the hangover, he forgot his antibiotics too so he had to go home. I wasn't happy about it but I understood.
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