Tgibb Posted October 28, 2016 Posted October 28, 2016 About 4 months ago, me and this guy. Let's call him Lake. Broke up. We dated for about 7 months. Our relationship was pretty cool. We got along really well and were like best friends. I started becoming stressed out and was taking it out on him. He did the right thing and broke up with me because I was causing him sadness because I was being so selfish. To this day I agree more and more with why he ended it. We've had almost no contact since breaking up. I believe it's been at least two months, maybe more. About two months ago this guy and I started talking. It was pretty nice at first, we started dating almost a month ago, but about two weeks ago he started getting nasty. He turned out to be a total dick. Very manipulative and other things. I really liked him, but to me, it seems like I was just a way to make his ex jealous. So basically I don't want this guy anymore. But Right after, I started thinking about Lake again. I can't shake this feeling that I should contact him soon. It's weird. I just don't know how I can contact him without disturbing the process of him forgiving my actions I guess? Or even enough time where he would even respond. All I can say is that I want to contact him. I just don't know how.
Gaeta Posted October 28, 2016 Posted October 28, 2016 When people break up often they will start thinking of previous relationship. It's just because of loneliness and boredom. You leave Lake alone, he went on with his life and you keep on going with yours.
Springsummer Posted October 29, 2016 Posted October 29, 2016 When people break up often they will start thinking of previous relationship. It's just because of loneliness and boredom. You leave Lake alone, he went on with his life and you keep on going with yours. yup, bet she never thought about him when she was dating him and before he turned nasty. 1
Author Tgibb Posted October 31, 2016 Author Posted October 31, 2016 yup, bet she never thought about him when she was dating him and before he turned nasty. ??? Isn't it a good thing that I didn't think of him while dating another guy????? I didn't give this guy a chance at first because I still wanted "Lake". Sorry for being a loyal person while dating someone. 1
ChickiePops Posted October 31, 2016 Posted October 31, 2016 I say go ahead and contact him..if nothing else you can apologize for your past behavior. But if he doesn't respond or if he responds negatively, leave it alone for good.
travelbug1996 Posted November 2, 2016 Posted November 2, 2016 I would contact him and make amends since it was your fault that he was forced to break up. The exact same thing that happened with me. I wish my ex would come back. It wasn't a bad breakup so I say go for it. He could be a forgiving person and single.
Springsummer Posted November 2, 2016 Posted November 2, 2016 ??? Isn't it a good thing that I didn't think of him while dating another guy????? I didn't give this guy a chance at first because I still wanted "Lake". Sorry for being a loyal person while dating someone. You tell me. I actually just paraphrased what you said in your original post. You have a problem with that?
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