420traveller Posted October 27, 2016 Posted October 27, 2016 I'm 27 and have been with my girlfriend officially for a month now. Let's call her S. We've been seeing each other for around 3 months before that. We met while on my travels, we met and spent an amazing 2 months together. Then I left for 2 months to continue to travel. While apart we discussed we was only seeing each other and no LDR or serious commitment. While I was away I didn't kiss or sleep with anyone else and we were in constant contact. I did however meet up with an ex girlfriend (nothing physical happened although she wanted it to). When I returned to S things were great. I had to ask...... "Has there been anyone else?" the long silence came followed by a yes. She explained she felt lonely and went back to her ex boyfriend once for sex. I was upset but understood she had done nothing wrong. We moved on and became official. However we already know our end date because I'm moving to the other side of the world with no quick return in sight. So I do love this women dearly, but the ex girlfriend who I met while I was away from S has been in contact and said when me and S are not official she wants to see me for just a sexual encounter in the few days I have to myself before I fly away. I'm really attracted my my ex and want to see her and not miss out on a opportunity. My question to you is...... Should I feel guilty about making arrangements while in my relationship with S to see another women for the very next day. I know I will be single but I can't help but feel bad. Should I?
Toodaloo Posted October 27, 2016 Posted October 27, 2016 You have to live with yourself so what do you think you should do? If the shoe were on the other foot how would you feel about it? 1
keiji Posted October 27, 2016 Posted October 27, 2016 My question to you is...... Should I feel guilty about making arrangements while in my relationship with S to see another women for the very next day. I know I will be single but I can't help but feel bad. Should I? I think you should, yes. For starters, I don't believe that a second after breaking up with someone you don't owe them some respect, never mind planning a sexual encounter while you're still with that girl.
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