spaceraider234 Posted October 27, 2016 Posted October 27, 2016 My boyfriend of 5 months accidently said I love y.. Last night, we were talking and cuddling and kissing and he came out with it, stopped and looked very embarrassed we both laughed and he said I didn't mean to say that... Then when we were sleeping he does this thing where he wakes up and starts talking in his sleep and hugging me, he grabbed me and repeatedly said ''I f****** love you'' Then went back to sleep immediately. We have never said it to one another in normal circumstances, he has made references to it i.e calling me his love and he said last night ''Your the only one for me I've been thinking about it all day'' I don't know wether to ask him if he means it or just wait for him to say it properly, I'm pretty sure its accidently slipped out like that before a couple of times too so not the first time. Would he say it without meaning it?
Kaiten Posted October 27, 2016 Posted October 27, 2016 Well there's no way we can assess what kind of person he might be given that the only information you've given us is that he said "i love y.." and "I f#cking love you". So yes, he probably does mean it. I'm sure that he loves you in the way that you both define the word "love" and American culture defines "love". This all sounds like a surge of emotion though.
basil67 Posted October 27, 2016 Posted October 27, 2016 Is there anything which makes you believe that he doesn't mean it? 1
Author spaceraider234 Posted October 27, 2016 Author Posted October 27, 2016 Probably the fact that he only says it in his sleep and when it does slip it in normal circumstances he gets embarrassed and says he didn't mean to say it :/
Author spaceraider234 Posted October 27, 2016 Author Posted October 27, 2016 Is there anything which makes you believe that he doesn't mean it? Probably the fact that he only says it in his sleep and when it does slip it in normal circumstances he gets embarrassed and says he didn't mean to say it :/
IfonlyIknew Posted October 27, 2016 Posted October 27, 2016 I've read "when a man loves a woman, he can't keep it to himself for long". It's been 5 months, I think he is genuine. 1
gorf Posted October 27, 2016 Posted October 27, 2016 Why would he say it without meaning it? Too many answers to that. Why would you tell someone you love them? Think of it like that, cause nobody can pinpoint exactly why he might have said it if he didnt mean it. But that said, 5 months. Why do you believe me does not mean it?
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