Gloria25 Posted October 26, 2016 Posted October 26, 2016 Ok, what's going on if one minute a guy seems into you, then acts aloof? It he playing games? Trying to see how interested you are? Or simply not interested, but likes the attention - so he orbits you?
Nowty V Posted October 26, 2016 Posted October 26, 2016 Maybe he just bounces between his options. As one goes cold he goes hot on another. Maybe he's just erratic by nature. Who knows.
jen1447 Posted October 26, 2016 Posted October 26, 2016 That's usually the domain of women trying to put you thru the wringer, either for their amusement or as some sort of 'test' most often. With guys, it's usually mixed emotions IME (like say uncertainty in a work environment). Or I guess it could be "negging," but I think that's more an online thing.
Wade Lamare Posted October 26, 2016 Posted October 26, 2016 Depends. You've only given us the bare bones here. What did you do when he showed interest? Did you reciprocate? Don't know about other guys here but back in the day if I'd got up the courage to approach a girl and she dissed me or was lukewarm I didn't hang around to be humiliated. It was "ok, I get the picture, bye." That may seem, as you mention, aloof but life's to short to be mooning around some girl who has no interest in you. Don't get me wrong, I wasn't expecting a "thank God, I've been waiting for a guy like you all my life." But a warm response, pleasant smile and a nice convo was always appreciated. Not saying you did these things OP, just that you haven't given us a lot to go on.
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