Black Cement Posted October 26, 2016 Posted October 26, 2016 Met this girl online, she's cool & good looking but she claims me as her boyfriend already. We've talked off and on for the past month, but I think its way too soon to be claiming me. We're finally going to go on a date this weekend though. Another thing too is that she's 21 & i'm 29. Any insight you may have on this, & should I just get with her?
kendahke Posted October 26, 2016 Posted October 26, 2016 What did you say to her claiming you as a boyfriend?
IfonlyIknew Posted October 26, 2016 Posted October 26, 2016 Clinger stage 5 alert. Needy & Co-dependent from the get go! I tend to believe things burn as fast as they start. She is throwing the boyfriend word around a little too fast. You're not the first she's done that with either, she's too comfortable with it. You can go on the date and see if you get the cling vibes.
Author Black Cement Posted October 26, 2016 Author Posted October 26, 2016 What did you say to her claiming you as a boyfriend? I sent a selfie & she said "yesss! You're my boyfriend now!"
Author Black Cement Posted October 26, 2016 Author Posted October 26, 2016 Clinger stage 5 alert. Needy & Co-dependent from the get go! I tend to believe things burn as fast as they start. She is throwing the boyfriend word around a little too fast. You're not the first she's done that with either, she's too comfortable with it. You can go on the date and see if you get the cling vibes. Well I kinda like clingy, as apposed to my ex girlfriend who didn't want to spend time with me & felt one sided.
mikeylo Posted October 26, 2016 Posted October 26, 2016 Be careful. You might get scammed ! Specially money.
ChickiePops Posted October 26, 2016 Posted October 26, 2016 I sent a selfie & she said "yesss! You're my boyfriend now!" Are you sure she was being serious? I've joked around with guys or guy friends before and said stuff like that when they're looking particularly nice or if they do something nice for me. 1
Author Black Cement Posted October 26, 2016 Author Posted October 26, 2016 Be careful. You might get scammed ! Specially money. Money scam?
Author Black Cement Posted October 26, 2016 Author Posted October 26, 2016 Are you sure she was being serious? I've joked around with guys or guy friends before and said stuff like that when they're looking particularly nice or if they do something nice for me. It's hard to tell via text. But she said "you know you're mine right? Baby I'm yours."
IfonlyIknew Posted October 26, 2016 Posted October 26, 2016 That sounds more like her complimenting you LOL! Like I've said to guys omg you're so mine, and in no way meant it as I'm claiming them more so "you're extra handsome"
newheart Posted October 26, 2016 Posted October 26, 2016 I sent a selfie & she said "yesss! You're my boyfriend now!" Maybe she was just being funny?
ChickiePops Posted October 26, 2016 Posted October 26, 2016 It's hard to tell via text. But she said "you know you're mine right? Baby I'm yours." Oh. Well..I don't know, it really is hard to tell over text. I bet she'll change her tune once you meet. Why has it taken so long by the way?
BaileyB Posted October 26, 2016 Posted October 26, 2016 Maybe she was trying to be funny... If not, you should run. It's not normal to claim someone is your boyfriend when you haven't even met.
joseb Posted October 26, 2016 Posted October 26, 2016 I sent a selfie & she said "yesss! You're my boyfriend now!" Just sounds like a joke to me. Unless she had done something else to make you think it's serious, I would take it as such.
Author Black Cement Posted October 27, 2016 Author Posted October 27, 2016 Oh. Well..I don't know, it really is hard to tell over text. I bet she'll change her tune once you meet. Why has it taken so long by the way? It taken long because of me. I was in between jobs & life has been hell, but I finally asked her out.
Author Black Cement Posted October 27, 2016 Author Posted October 27, 2016 Just sounds like a joke to me. Unless she had done something else to make you think it's serious, I would take it as such. Well she put in her bio that she's taken.
joseb Posted October 27, 2016 Posted October 27, 2016 Well she put in her bio that she's taken. Ok, well perhaps she is a state 5 clinger then! Tread carefully.
Vado Posted October 27, 2016 Posted October 27, 2016 Those kind a jokes before you met, I wouldn't, it might lead to awkward situations. First see if you get along in real life.
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