Will he choose me?

[RyanO1991]

I appreciate your advice and I have decided that I want to be strong. I'm disrespecting myself on so many levels even being a choice! He text me last night and I replied that I'm moving on and I wish him all the best with his new girlfriend. I then blocked his number. I'm devastated that I have been treated this way but its my fault. I need to build myself up so this doesn't happen again.

 

You should have been his priority all along. You stood by him for 4 years - this should never even have been a decision for him.

 

Good for you for coming out of it with so much dignity.

 

But please remember it is NOT your fault. You could be the perfect gf but it wouldn't change how he acts or behaves. It's going to be really tough but you've escaped.

[keiji]

But please remember it is NOT your fault. You could be the perfect gf but it wouldn't change how he acts or behaves.

 

What Ryan says. Sorry, I highlighted the words "it's my fault" in my original response but the sentence where I was referring to that was deleted involuntarily.

[Toodaloo]

I appreciate your advice and I have decided that I want to be strong. I'm disrespecting myself on so many levels even being a choice! He text me last night and I replied that I'm moving on and I wish him all the best with his new girlfriend. I then blocked his number. I'm devastated that I have been treated this way but its my fault. I need to build myself up so this doesn't happen again.

 

I am so pleased to hear you say this.

 

When I made this choice I began to empower myself. OK so I am still single but the difference is I am not dating complete idiots and I am much happier, confident and assured in myself! I am doing some really fantastic things I would never have done before!!!

 

It is a choice that you have to make to be positive and its a really grand thing you have just done. You don't realise it yet but you have just given yourself the power to do what ever you want with your life! Go for it and live it!