carlosb7792 Posted October 25, 2016 Posted October 25, 2016 Some chick that I dated for 2 months who broke it off with me added me on snapchat after 2 months of NC. I didn't think to myself one bit that she was trying to reconcile. Thought it was weird because she added me by my number. I Asked her why she added me and her response was "I dont want to hold grudges on people." She later went on tell me that she had a grudge on me, and is over the situation. I told her hat I know she is and that I'm not stupid. She said she was mad at me and when I asked why she said because I didn't know if I wanted to be with her. Blah, Blah, Blah. After she broke me off I specifically told her I didn't want to be friends with her. When I'm ready to be friends I'll reach out. I think it's funny because she has a new man, still has my number, and even though it's social media she added me on snapchat. I also think it's weird that you have a new man and you're just now getting over it and aren't no longer mad at me. I want to know, am I putting too much thought into this? Or does something seems fishy?? Also I Blocked her from seeing my stories. Any thoughts will be gladly appreciated.
smackie9 Posted October 25, 2016 Posted October 25, 2016 Only she can answer that....if I were you tho I would just block/delete her anyways. what purpose is this to even have her on there? next her.
Author carlosb7792 Posted October 25, 2016 Author Posted October 25, 2016 I asked her and she did answer it, but to add an ex when you have a new dude, and tell your ex "i added you because I'm not mad at you no more" can seem confusing lol I added her back because I'm a nice guy and hold grudges. I just blocked her so she can't see my stories. It's none of your business what I do.
VeveCakes Posted October 25, 2016 Posted October 25, 2016 I asked her and she did answer it, but to add an ex when you have a new dude, and tell your ex "i added you because I'm not mad at you no more" can seem confusing lol I added her back because I'm a nice guy and hold grudges. I just blocked her so she can't see my stories. It's none of your business what I do. blocking means she cant message you or you her either, so what was the point to adding her?
Author carlosb7792 Posted October 25, 2016 Author Posted October 25, 2016 It's different for snapchat. She'll still be able to message me and send me pics and videos. I blocked her from being able to see my stories. If you post pics and videos on your stories all of your friends can view them. Understand now? Lol
VeveCakes Posted October 25, 2016 Posted October 25, 2016 It's different for snapchat. She'll still be able to message me and send me pics and videos. I blocked her from being able to see my stories. If you post pics and videos on your stories all of your friends can view them. Understand now? Lol Yeah I have SC and use it a lot lol oh so you just blocked your stories? Why? Seems like a game...
Author carlosb7792 Posted October 25, 2016 Author Posted October 25, 2016 I was just making sure lol i don't have her number so I added her back to see why added. After we talked about it, and I realized she was looking at my stories I decided to block her. You cut me off, and you have a new dude so why do you want to look at my stories?? I'm not trying to play games because that's childish, if what I'm doing seems like I'm playing a game then I'll fix the issue but it's not my intentions to try and play a game.
VeveCakes Posted October 25, 2016 Posted October 25, 2016 well it seems like your intentions are clear then. My take is she has a new man but wants more attention, so she is adding you hoping you will hit her up or ogle over her.
Author carlosb7792 Posted October 25, 2016 Author Posted October 25, 2016 Yeah well I did hit her up to see why she added me. But you're right I should just block her completely, I don't want her to think that I'm fine with being friends.
kmack513 Posted October 25, 2016 Posted October 25, 2016 How does snap chat work, is it based on your contact list phone numbers....like whatsapp or other calling texting apps. I guess you can't delete her # and make her connection to you vanish?
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