what456 Posted July 11, 2005 Posted July 11, 2005 If a man wanted you for sex and you called him out on it...would he ever call you back? like you thought you were friends..before but only found out it was a sex thing....
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 11, 2005 Posted July 11, 2005 ...would he ever call you back? It depends on how hard of a time you gave him, and whether or not the sex will continue to be forthcoming.
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 11, 2005 Posted July 11, 2005 If you found out he only wanted you for sex and you don't want that, the solution is simple. Just stop talking to him. He isn't in it for what you thought, and chances are he never will be. There is little point in wondering if a guy is going to call you back, when all he wanted was sex and subsequently found out you aren't going to give him any. Of course he isn't going to call back. If he thinks he can change your mind, he may call back. Otherwise, chances are better that he will just find someone else. The question is: why do you want him to call you back if you don't want what he does?
Author what456 Posted July 11, 2005 Author Posted July 11, 2005 I guess so I THOUGHT that we were friends..we have known each other for two years now...and I didn't think that all he wantesd was sex. it actually kind of hurts because I thought our friendship was more than casual sex. i actually tried getting in touch with him but he hasn't called me back..so i am just going to back off.
clandestinidad Posted July 11, 2005 Posted July 11, 2005 I have a good story for this one..... A few years ago I met and went on a few dates w/ a guy....acted like the perfect gentleman at times, kinda pushy sexually other times....so I had a feeling something was amiss....I'd jokingly say something about only wanting me for sex, and he'd get quiet and sad and offended So one night he didnt want to take me home (should have picked up on that one!!!), we were in his bed talking (for some reason I told him about past molestation) and all of a sudden he was on me, pushing for sex....I was so shocked and confused that it went from talking about THAT to sex, that I didnt fight him....I just layed there.....and he said "thank you" when he was done Anyway, my point is: If you EVER feel like something is wrong or strange or just a little off, LISTEN TO YOURSELF!!!!!!! If you feel like this guy is only wanting sex, then youre probably right. We take cues from things people say and do, without even realizing we're doing it. If you've gotten those cues, then stay away from him. If he's a friend, just hang out w/ him with other people, or in public...dont put yourself in a position where youre alone and uncomfortable.
Author what456 Posted July 11, 2005 Author Posted July 11, 2005 Kat, when i saw my ex for the last time..he was a perfect gentlemen. he didn't push me for sex, he was so sweet. when i came home, I started to notice that he was distant from me for no reason esp. since he wanted to meet up again!! so, i thought maybe it was the sex? or maybe he is a commitment phobe? he spent alot of money on me. he knows me well and knows that i am strict about my virginity...but he turned!
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