Grapefruit6 Posted October 24, 2016 Posted October 24, 2016 If you are the OM/OW, has your MM or MW ever asked you to not date other people while the affair is ongoing? How would/did you feel if you were asked by them to not date other people? On the other hand, as an OM/OW, have you tried/had the urge/dated other people that interested you while being in an affair with MM/MW? If you did, how did that affect your relationship with MM/MW? Do you tell them that you are dating other people? Were they okay with it?
eye of the storm Posted October 24, 2016 Posted October 24, 2016 My MM never came right out and asked me to not date but when I went on dates, I could tell he was uncomfortable. And he finally admitted he wished I wouldn't but that he was aware he couldn't ask. So, on my own, I stopped dating.
Chica80 Posted October 24, 2016 Posted October 24, 2016 He wants me to date other people....move on essentially. Because we can never be. I'm not interested in dating. I think about it sometimes I just don't really want to.
Lady2163 Posted October 24, 2016 Posted October 24, 2016 I've done some swinging and gone to a few bdsm parties at different times n my life. XMM never asked me not to go, said he couldn't do that. But I normally told,him in advance. We rarely, RARELY talked on the weekends. But if I had one of those parties on a Friday or Saturday night, he would blow up my phone with calls and texts. He'd start a very sweet dialogue. I knew what he was doing. But, when I tried dating, I rarely told him beforehand if I had a one on one date. If I did tell him, I also let him know I was leaving my phone in the car or my purse.
Forever broken Posted October 24, 2016 Posted October 24, 2016 He was paranoid anytime I had a guy over because he thought he was gonna lose me. I let all these wonderful single guys go. For what? A married man over 18 years older than me with nothing meaningful to offer except heartbreak. No matter what do not stop dating. 1
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