ForeverAlone2016 Posted October 23, 2016 Posted October 23, 2016 Hi guys, I recently started dating a guy. We went on a couple of really great dates and we had a lot in common. His body language was always positive while we were together and he was interested in doing things that interested me. After our last night, we had intimate relations (not sex) but things got heavy, but now he is just ignoring my messages. He never tries to flirt with me in messages, but is very positive when we are together. However he is ignoring all my messages now and I don't know why. What should I do?
ExpatInItaly Posted October 23, 2016 Posted October 23, 2016 Stop messaging him. It sounds like he either lost interest or met someone else. 1
mortensorchid Posted October 23, 2016 Posted October 23, 2016 Yes, stop messaging him. He either found someone else or he lost interest, whichever the case may be, don't be sad. Someone else will come along someday somehow, you just have to believe that it will happen. 2
longjohn Posted October 23, 2016 Posted October 23, 2016 Hi guys, I recently started dating a guy. We went on a couple of really great dates and we had a lot in common. His body language was always positive while we were together and he was interested in doing things that interested me. After our last night, we had intimate relations (not sex) but things got heavy, but now he is just ignoring my messages. He never tries to flirt with me in messages, but is very positive when we are together. However he is ignoring all my messages now and I don't know why. What should I do? He's ignoring you because he got what he came for. He feels no need to play the game now he feels your "on the hook". If you want an actual relationship dump this fella he's only after one thing from the sounds of it. 1
Fishfingersareyummy Posted October 23, 2016 Posted October 23, 2016 It seems like he only wants sex and he was probably left feeling disappointed that sex never materialized and is now going after other women and has either written you off or has put you on the back burner. 3
Gaeta Posted October 23, 2016 Posted October 23, 2016 The same as everyone says. I want to add if you want to survive dating then learn to never put feelings or hope in a man before he offers you exclusivity. In the first 2-3 months of dating someone he can disappear at any time with no explanation, after 2-3 dates it happens even more often. I am sorry you are disappointed, you will meet someone great very soon. 1
stillafool Posted October 23, 2016 Posted October 23, 2016 He's no longer interested. It happens so move on. 1
Satu Posted October 23, 2016 Posted October 23, 2016 As everyone said above. Delete, block, move on. Take care.
Toodaloo Posted October 23, 2016 Posted October 23, 2016 When I don't talk to people its because I don't want to talk to them. Ignore him and move on. 1
smackie9 Posted October 23, 2016 Posted October 23, 2016 There are guys out there that have the three date rule....if sex doesn't happen by date three, move on. Of course he is going to be all flirty and say all the right things.....I bet money on it he actually has nothing in common with you....it's just part of the game, saying what you want to hear, and be that dream guy to get you in the sack. 2
Vado Posted October 23, 2016 Posted October 23, 2016 Yeah I know, this is a bad startscript voor a low budget romance movie, but it happend one time with a friend of mine, he lost his phone after a date. So just in case, are there other ways you can communicate with him (facebook, e-mail, does he has your info about this?) Otherwise: there are dating coaches that say: only use the phone for dates, like Corey Wayne. Maybe he took the advice litteraly.
leogirl876 Posted October 23, 2016 Posted October 23, 2016 Don't chase him. Send him 1 text, if he doesn't respond, wait several days and send 1 more. If he still doesn't respond, then move on. Sometimes men need space after hooking up, but that's not more than usually a couple of days space. But whatever you do, don't over-text him because that comes across as needy.
smackie9 Posted October 23, 2016 Posted October 23, 2016 Don't chase him. Send him 1 text, if he doesn't respond, wait several days and send 1 more. If he still doesn't respond, then move on. Sometimes men need space after hooking up, but that's not more than usually a couple of days space. But whatever you do, don't over-text him because that comes across as needy. There was no hookup...that's the thing.....she put the brakes on and now he won't respond to her messages.....he's totally off the map. 1
introverted1 Posted October 23, 2016 Posted October 23, 2016 Hi guys, I recently started dating a guy. We went on a couple of really great dates and we had a lot in common. His body language was always positive while we were together and he was interested in doing things that interested me. After our last night, we had intimate relations (not sex) but things got heavy, but now he is just ignoring my messages. He never tries to flirt with me in messages, but is very positive when we are together. However he is ignoring all my messages now and I don't know why. What should I do? What the heck does the above bolded mean? That you had sex but not intercourse? Regardless, this is one more vote to say he's not interested. Move on.
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