bangdaddy Posted July 11, 2005 Posted July 11, 2005 My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me, just about june 19th. She says she need time to think, about us. Well first off her dad died, and i tried to be beside her all i could. Her mom then tried to commit suicide, after her dad died and after that everything went down hill. I said her mom is trying to control her. She lets her go to work and over to her friends house but whenever shed try to come over here shed call and say something like shes going to commit suicide. She didn't think her mom was trying to stop us from being togehter. She hasn't talked to me or been around me since june 20th. She says theirs no one else. I even had a friend thats a girl call her and she told her that she needed time to think and for me not to call her. Just give her time to think about stuff. Figure stuff out. She also wanted me to get a job, so i'm trying. its just so hard to lose her..she gave me most of my stuff back and i thought i'd give up living right there. I had a dream last night of her standing in front of me saying.." I want to get back together with you." Probably just my hopes manifesting themselves in my dreams. I would do anything thing for this woman I love her with everything that I am. My parents are mad at me for trying to get back with her because they think shes no good to do what she done to me, but the rest of my friends say wait it out except one that says forget about her. i'm in such pain. I grind my teeth at night, and now have ulcers. My parents say i don't need her i'll find someone else. But i refuse to give up that easy. I want to start a family. I'll wait as long as it takes. So everyone if you were me what would you do? Thanks for reading and helping me.
danielle_rae Posted July 11, 2005 Posted July 11, 2005 If I were you I'd do just what you're doing...i'd wait. True love is obviously something that doesn't come eaisly, and it takes ALOT to keep it alive. If you really believe that you are in love with this woman and cant be without her than don't be. DO what she asks, back off a bit, but not too much as to where she doesn't think you will be there for her. She obviously is going through an extremely tough time right now, all you can do is wait really. If she really loves you then she WILL come to you, I can promise you that. There may be a point where she will say "Hey, let's just be friends" and your going to have to go through with it, but so long as your there and don't run away from your love for her, and so long as you don't give into the pain, im sure things will turn out alright for you.
Author bangdaddy Posted July 12, 2005 Author Posted July 12, 2005 I would do ANYTHING for this woman just to see her happy. Just to see that smile.I will wait till the rivers run dry and the stars fall out of the sky till the circle comes to an end.I'd love to be friends or whatever she wants. I don't care what it takes, shes been through enough to keep hearing me blab. Your right.. i need to shut up and wait. She wanted me to get a job well i'm trying i just hope she knows how sorry iam for what i done. and maybe she'll come back someday. I hope.
danielle_rae Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 So long as you give her the distance she asks, but still re-assue her that you will ALWAYS be there when she needs you, I'm sure she will come bak when the time is right
Author bangdaddy Posted July 12, 2005 Author Posted July 12, 2005 Thank you. I really hope so I'll be here for her whenever she needs me i'll just wait for her to call me though to tell her. i don't want to push her away anymore than she already is. I don't care who she sleeps with in what way or anything else, my love is uncondtional.
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