mortensorchid Posted October 22, 2016 Posted October 22, 2016 This summer, I had an encounter with someone. For some more information, see this thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/mind-body-soul/sexual-reproductive-health-practices/582077-animal-within Long story short, I'd known him for a bit, he was a casual acquaintance I'd known through some others. He lived nearby me, and invited me over for a BBQ at his house. We ended up having sex that night. I went home, the next day he called and asked me to come see him again, which I did. We spent the weekend together. He was planning to go to NYC for a few months for a work project, I said okay, that's fine with me. I also said to him that I realize that we did not know each other, what happened happened, we had some adult fun and if it was just this weekend that's fine. Plus he was going to be away, we were not committed and he was free to do what he liked while he was away without feeling guilty should he sleep with another woman. He said he was okay with that. We've talked a few times since he's been away (he left in August). I checked in with him through Facebook today and said I hoped he was having a good time in NYC and wondered if he was going to come back anytime soon. He said he wanted to return but work was so good for him, he planned to pay the bills and things while away and he'll come back soon. He'd look me up when he came back, thanks for checking in. I hope I don't sound too cold or unfeeling, but I realized it's what it was. I was thinking this was one of those "ships that pass in the night" kind of encounters, he's not really my type. When the situation presented itself I went in thinking he was that something different (he's a muscle stud, I don't really go for those but I had never been with one of those before, let's try this out). And ... He was that something different. I like the guy, to be sure. I mean, I did do IT with him. He's my friend but I don't see this as being anything but a friendship. I guess my question is ... Am I wrong to see it this way? Did I reject him by saying what I said? I was trying to be practical about matters.
Raena Posted October 22, 2016 Posted October 22, 2016 This summer, I had an encounter with someone. For some more information, see this thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/mind-body-soul/sexual-reproductive-health-practices/582077-animal-within Long story short, I'd known him for a bit, he was a casual acquaintance I'd known through some others. He lived nearby me, and invited me over for a BBQ at his house. We ended up having sex that night. I went home, the next day he called and asked me to come see him again, which I did. We spent the weekend together. He was planning to go to NYC for a few months for a work project, I said okay, that's fine with me. I also said to him that I realize that we did not know each other, what happened happened, we had some adult fun and if it was just this weekend that's fine. Plus he was going to be away, we were not committed and he was free to do what he liked while he was away without feeling guilty should he sleep with another woman. He said he was okay with that. We've talked a few times since he's been away (he left in August). I checked in with him through Facebook today and said I hoped he was having a good time in NYC and wondered if he was going to come back anytime soon. He said he wanted to return but work was so good for him, he planned to pay the bills and things while away and he'll come back soon. He'd look me up when he came back, thanks for checking in. I hope I don't sound too cold or unfeeling, but I realized it's what it was. I was thinking this was one of those "ships that pass in the night" kind of encounters, he's not really my type. When the situation presented itself I went in thinking he was that something different (he's a muscle stud, I don't really go for those but I had never been with one of those before, let's try this out). And ... He was that something different. I like the guy, to be sure. I mean, I did do IT with him. He's my friend but I don't see this as being anything but a friendship. I guess my question is ... Am I wrong to see it this way? Did I reject him by saying what I said? I was trying to be practical about matters. If you don't see him as anything but a friendship then what does it matter? It's probably best that you left it the way you did.
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