Ran into ex--What does this all Mean..Please give me your opinions b4 I go crazy :)

[bebegal]

Broke up with ex 2 wks ago( he broke up with me b/c thing moved to fast after 2 months, I live a sedentary life and who knows what else but along those lines) he had told me he needed a wk break..and quickly drove me home soon after .. Then a wk later he came over and told me that it was official and again was out the door in 5 minutes SO:

 

I run into him at temple with a friend of mine 2 wks later and he comes up to me and says good to see you, I am suprised to see you. He is then like I want to introduce you to my friend (This is his best friend that I never got to meet while we were together). I was wondering what the point of that was..I mean we are broken up with the intentions of never to speak again(he said he never remains freinds with girls when they break up). He walks away to go the bathroom. Me and my friend go into another room and he comes up to me 15 minutes later with his friend. we talk for 20 minutes and then I am like well.. were going to get going. As we are going his friends(not the one he introduced me to) try to pick up my friend--she thinks he is cute--and the friend invites us out with them..I asked my ex if it was ok (I mean just 2 wks ago he wanted nothing to do with me).. he said it was definately cool.

 

We go to the bar and after a while everyone gets up to go dancing and he and I sit there. He gets up and moves closer to me(He could have easily ran with his friends...I am shocked this even went this far..2 wks ago has he seen me he would have ran the other way) so he tells me

 

-his friend asked if it was wierd to see me and he said no, I was actually happy to see her

-He was sitting sooo close to me looking at me right in my eyes, we only stopped talking after his friends came back

-Telling me Im beauftil and he was thinking at the service if he would find someoen as good as me

-reminiscing about the things we did together and casual conversation

-I told him that I after he broke up with me I went to the temple b/c I need to get myself back on track, I had joined the gym,organizing a volunteer group, and I was ready as well to get my faith back as I have not been in years.

-I told him I saw his profile on match.com..today I looked and its DELETED

-his closest friend was so bored and not talking to anyone and he did not care he continued to have a one on one conversation with me

 

After he left--we were around all of his friends--he hugged me and said good to see you.

This was friday... my question is::::::DO you think he'll call, his feelings are back or... do you think he is thinking it was good to see her... but I still stand firm on my reasons of breaking up..???!!! If he were to call... when would it be?

 

Please I need to hear opinions

[Jennifer'sSecret]

He's trying to string you along, keep you as a backup. The nice things he's telling you, looking into your eyes, talking about the good 'ole times you had together, blah blah blah, he's just trying to dig his way back into your heart, bury a hole there so that you can't forget him...so that when he wants you back, IF he decides he wants you back, you'll be willing to take him back.

 

Just forget about him. It was only 2 months. You can do better.

[Zaira]

He wants you to keep the feelings you have for him without committing himself.

[bebegal]

I guess you are right.. I mean he would have called already... I bet he is doing this in case he does not find someone else....

 

SO I should NOT be expecting a phone call from him??

[alex434]

hold up, you need a mans perspective here, ok now look if i broke up with some girl that i really liked and i ran into her i would probably think of how good we were and maybe change my mind about not wanting to be with her and make an effort to be with her, this is me... on the other hand, how long has it been since u seen him? maybe he lost your number? you know where he lives im sure, if you feel the need, find out for yourself, go to him and ask him but from what is sounds like he MAYBE is trying to keep you on a string im not sure... any more things you can tell us about HIM?

[bebegal]

Alex,

we live right across the street..were exclusive for 2 months... broke up after we moved to fast and he felt that we were not right for each other. However, he really truly seemed interested on friday... so if he was would he wait to call or call right away to get back together... Like I said he removed his profile from the match.com website....on saturday.. but he never called me...he is 30 and looking for marriage...so I guess he needs to truly figure things out before jumping back into something..?..or maybe he is just stringing me along.. we have only been broken up for 2 wks..

 

he really did seem interested friday..its just what does he think now?

 

He broke up with me so there is NO way I would go back and email him or call him.

[bebegal]

anymore men's opinion here...? what is this guy thinking

[alex434]

its not that hard to do. thats what i would do, but no you rather just sit there and think yourself to death on the fact that he might or might not call you, do yourself a favor take 15 minutes out of your time walk over to his house and knock "knock knock" you might not have to ask him about getting together, but you can try and talk to him and see how he reacts dont just sit there like a duck, because you do know actions do speak louder, than words. Show him that maybe your just as interested in "us" again as he might be. thank you have a nice day