Author CryForNoOne Posted October 22, 2016 Author Posted October 22, 2016 So now you know they are not just friends. In your original post, you implied that the reason you were thinking of pursuing her was because you didn't think there was anything romantically between them. You now know this not to be true, but you still are trying to chase her. So I guess I don't understand your original question now. Put yourself in the guys shoes. How would you feel if the roles were reversed? Fair enough. I guess my post wasn't too clear. I am interested in pursuing her but am not now knowing they were on a date and I couldn't find her easily on Facebook. I'm not going to create an OK Cupid account to stalk her like someone suggested. Even had I had found her on FB, I would not have asked her out any time soon. I've connected with several women many months after we first met when the timing was better... 1
Miss Peach Posted October 24, 2016 Posted October 24, 2016 I can relate to this pretty well. (I'm 31/F). I went to a party with a (guy) friend of mine i've known for years. I meet one of his friends there, we hit it off, this guy asks my friend if he was interested in me in any way, he "didn't want to step on his toes". My friend gave him the green light and said "shes all yours", we ended up together for 8 years and 2 kids. You just never know if you don't ask. I don't think you are crossing boundaries. Same here happened to me. I have a male friend I've been friends with for decades. His friends asked if it was OK to ask me out and he gave all of them the green light. In my case it didn't work out but I'm glad they were man enough to find out and ask me out. I would ask the friend and get her contact information that way if he gives you the green light.
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