Logo Posted October 20, 2016 Posted October 20, 2016 The day, the hour, the minute you broke up, how did it go when you found out she/he cheated? How did you feel? How did you react? What did you do? How did the other person react? I'm curious to read some other people's experiences.
Nadine123 Posted October 20, 2016 Posted October 20, 2016 My ex cheated on me with a very close friend. How I reacted? I didnt call them, blocked them both and all their friends everywhere and never spoke to them again. He knew I found out and didnt even bother contacting me. I was devastated but atleast I know I reacted the right way. 1
JewelD Posted October 20, 2016 Posted October 20, 2016 I felt angry mostly. Partially at the way I found out. Instead of telling me, he let me look at his phone that he knew contained text messages from some girl he was messing around with. It was late at night and I yelled and screamed at him for hours because I wanted the truth about our entire relationship and he was still trying to lie. He had lied to me about things in the past and I had forgiven him, so this was a real slap in the face. He was somber and eventually told parts of the story he felt he had to tell. I knew I would never get the full truth because he was a punk ass mf, but he did confirm that he had been dating other women and trying to date other women, getting turned down by most. I asked about earlier incidents in our relationship where he had women calling his phone disguised as male names and he admitted I had been right all along. I wanted him to die honestly. I told him I wanted him to be in a horrible car accident and die and I meant it when I said it. It's been over a year and he tried to call/text a few times, looking for sympathy, saying how he wants to know how I'm doing because we used to be friends, hoping that my "animosity" towards him will end one day because he's always "there for me". Just really self centered dumb **** that completely ignores his cheating. I never responded. It was definitely in the top 5 best/worst experiences of my life. It was the worst because I was in a dark place for several months afterwards. But it was also the best because I learned that just because someone seems nice doesn't mean they won't fck you over. 1
aloneinaz Posted October 20, 2016 Posted October 20, 2016 My ex cheated on me with a very close friend. How I reacted? I didnt call them, blocked them both and all their friends everywhere and never spoke to them again. He knew I found out and didnt even bother contacting me. I was devastated but atleast I know I reacted the right way. Perfectly handled. At that point, who cares "why" or "how come"? They cheated which is all you need to know about how they really felt about you or the relationship you shared. There's nothing left to do but what this poster did. I'll also say that it's not always an indictment that the person who was cheated on did anything wrong either. Some people just don't possess the moral codes that most do. 2
Toodaloo Posted October 20, 2016 Posted October 20, 2016 I didn't find out until after I had broken up with him and been single again for about a month and a half. Still hurt like hell. But what is there to say? Truth is nothing. Whats done is done and c'est la vie. I simply removed him from social media and stopped speaking to him. Easy really. Made me feel better to cut some crap out of my life. The good news is that it helped me get over him a bit better and quit moping about it. Got me to book in my appointment to get checked with the doctor ready for dating again... So? I think a lot of this stuff, how people deal with it and how people react. It all has to do with the mindset you have. While it hurts like hell after a day or so of venting and accepting it as it is... I am good and can move on. I think its only been about a week since I found out... I don't even really think about it any more. Just moving on. 1
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