How often do you see someone you're dating?

[rednails85]

How often do you see someone you're dating? How does this change over the course of your relationship?

[five2nine]

We saw each other one night a week usually Saturday. After a few months it became 1-2 nights. Sometimes a week night as well. I always wanted to see each other more early on but he wanted his space still. After about 6+ months it was 3-5 nights a week. We just moved in together at almost 9 months

[gorf]

first 3-4 months, like 3-5x a week haha. Then after that maybe 2x a week?

 

But as any will say, its different for everyone. Some are 1x a week all along. Some are 1-2x. Some start out slow and build up, some are more the other way around. Really depends on the people and how much 'together time' they need for initial face to face bonding. Some people need a lot of this, and other people are maybe less 'touchy feely' if you want to say, so they do not need so much time at the start.

 

I guess the real question is: why are you asking. Do you feel like something is off in your relationship?

[TheParadox7]

I'm not dating at the moment. However, if I am, I usually see the person I'm dating once a week, two or three times at the most.

[Toodaloo]

Once a week to start then slowly increase.

 

At 6 months I was seeing my latest fling for at least 1 night/ day at the weekends and at least 1 during the week. It was usually 2-3 nights at the weekend and one during the week. But depended on our schedules.

 

Just slowly build it up as you get to know them. Make sure you keep to all your usual activities and keep up your own social life away from them.

[eightytwenty]

For me it was a weekend, every other weekend, until we moved in together at like 8-9 months.. He moved 8 hours away to me.. I ended up pregnant at month 6 so really the reason why he moved so soon. We did talk about it and if I wouldn't of gotten pregnant he would of moved at the year mark. Neither one of us were cut out for LDR..