shygurl Posted July 10, 2005 Posted July 10, 2005 Originally posted by jvjrose I work 7 days a week so I am by no means lazy. It is not that I am after his money. That is not what the relationship is built on. But I feel like we should share everything including his money. I use to make his lunch for him everyday during the week saving him lots of money. I have purchase a mini pod for him. I have brought his lunch sometimes. I have purchased drinks for us, food, etc. I know you think I dont have anything to complain about but really I would like him to be more generous. He does stuff for me too but it is not enough. Why do you feel you should share everything? He's not your husband - he's a MM, is he not? Nobody forced you to make his lunch each day - surely he's a big boy and can make his own? Why would you spend money you apparently don't have on an iPod if he's so wealthy and could easily afford his own? This is someone's husband here - not exactly a man of integrity or fairness, what do you really expect? He's likely doling out the cash to his wife.
VirginiaBob Posted July 10, 2005 Posted July 10, 2005 Ok, how much money/gifts have you given him should be the real question? Focus on what you can do for him. don't be selfish.
millefiori Posted July 10, 2005 Posted July 10, 2005 Originally posted by shygurl She's not married to him because he's already married - to his WIFE. What's this world coming to when a mistress/golddigger can't muster up the gold?! (note sarcasm). I'm sure he's spending his cold, hard cash on his wife - as it should be. Ugh.... (I seriously wonder why I have not more guys waiting in line to marry me.... I feel so normal. )
shygurl Posted July 10, 2005 Posted July 10, 2005 Originally posted by jvjrose ha, ha Not all all....not at all. Hey I am being straight up. Women like money...Men like sex. It is true. It is not that I dont love my man or vice versa...he is just a little cheat man. I am not used to that. I want it to change because I a very generous. Don't you mean CHEAP? Sure, women like money, so do men - but most of us have self respect and we make our own money, we don't go sleeping with someone's husband. You're not used to that? What are you saying - you're used to being a golddigger who thinks of their p*ssy as a commodity? Oy oy oy. Are you from the back country?
Author 9Lives Posted July 10, 2005 Author Posted July 10, 2005 Originally posted by shygurl Why do you feel you should share everything? He's not your husband - he's a MM, is he not? Nobody forced you to make his lunch each day - surely he's a big boy and can make his own? Why would you spend money you apparently don't have on an iPod if he's so wealthy and could easily afford his own? This is someone's husband here - not exactly a man of integrity or fairness, what do you really expect? He's likely doling out the cash to his wife. shygurl You are such a hater that takes everything so personal and to the heart. It is just a discussion. Do you have to try to be so evil. I regret conversating with you. I guess you want everyone to dislike me like you do. okay you win
millefiori Posted July 10, 2005 Posted July 10, 2005 Originally posted by jvjrose ha, ha Not all all....not at all. Hey I am being straight up. Women like money...Men like sex. It is true. It is not that I dont love my man or vice versa...he is just a little cheat man. I am not used to that. I want it to change because I a very generous. Sweetie, I have my own money. If you equal gifts with caring, then I understand you, but to demand money from him is quite rude and doesn't look very loving.
VirginiaBob Posted July 10, 2005 Posted July 10, 2005 shygurl You are such a hater that takes everything so personal and to the heart. It is just a discussion. Do you have to try to be so evil. I regret conversating with you. I guess you want everyone to dislike me like you do. okay you win Hint hint, it's not just her that dislikes you. This forum is about love (i.e. loveshack.org), not about manipulating someone for money.
Author 9Lives Posted July 10, 2005 Author Posted July 10, 2005 Originally posted by VirginiaBob Ok, how much money/gifts have you given him should be the real question? Focus on what you can do for him. don't be selfish. I am not being selfish. We do for each other. It is not just him. Forget it. I am doing a bad job of showing the whole picture to you. It is not about money. Sorry I brought it up. Nice talking to you. Bye
Author 9Lives Posted July 10, 2005 Author Posted July 10, 2005 Originally posted by millefiori Sweetie, I have my own money. If you equal gifts with caring, then I understand you, but to demand money from him is quite rude and doesn't look very loving. I dont demand gift or anything from him. I am more generous than he is and I would like for him to change. It is not about the money like that is the focus.
Author 9Lives Posted July 10, 2005 Author Posted July 10, 2005 Originally posted by VirginiaBob Hint hint, it's not just her that dislikes you. This forum is about love (i.e. loveshack.org), not about manipulating someone for money. No dear, she hates me. Believe it. She wants me to seem like a monster.
Author 9Lives Posted July 10, 2005 Author Posted July 10, 2005 Originally posted by VirginiaBob Are you married to him? If not, he has no responsibility to give you any money. You sound like a gold-digger and don't really care about him. VirginiaBob, I DO CARE ABOUT HIM. I LOVE HIM. It is not as bad as it sounds. Believe me. It is not about money. Hear me out but he spends alot of money and I would like him to spend more on me that all. It is not about the money .
shygurl Posted July 10, 2005 Posted July 10, 2005 Originally posted by jvjrose No dear, she hates me. Believe it. She wants me to seem like a monster. Stop with drama. I don't hate you, I don't even know you. You're posting on public forums thereby asking for opinions and feedback - if you can't deal with the responses you get - that might not be someone sugarcoating it and telling you what you want to hear (read),what can I say?
shygurl Posted July 10, 2005 Posted July 10, 2005 Originally posted by jvjrose VirginiaBob, I DO CARE ABOUT HIM. I LOVE HIM. It is not as bad as it sounds. Believe me. It is not about money. Hear me out but he spends alot of money and I would like him to spend more on me that all. It is not about the money . He makes a lot of money, you want him to spend more on you - yet it's not about the money. Okay.
A Fly onThe Wall Posted July 10, 2005 Posted July 10, 2005 Originally posted by jvjrose It is not as bad as it sounds. Believe me. It is not about money. Why do you think his money is yours ? Your not married .... Get some self respect and forget how much money he isn't spending on you.. It's not yours.. Next you will posting wanting to know why he broke up with you..
Author 9Lives Posted July 10, 2005 Author Posted July 10, 2005 Originally posted by shygurl Stop with drama. I don't hate you, I don't even know you. You're posting on public forums thereby asking for opinions and feedback - if you can't deal with the responses you get - that might not be someone sugarcoating it and telling you what you want to hear (read),what can I say? LIKE I SAID, SHE HATES ME. WHY WOULD YOUR CLAWING BE SO SHARP TOWARDS ME. You are right. You dont know me. That is why I could care less what you say. But I do think you have taken pesonal but that is okay. I know what to do.
Author 9Lives Posted July 10, 2005 Author Posted July 10, 2005 Originally posted by A Fly onThe Wall Why do you think his money is yours ? Your not married .... Get some self respect and forget how much money he isn't spending on you.. It's not yours.. Next you will posting wanting to know why he broke up with you.. I guess I am going to have to say this hundred times. IT IS NOT ABOUT THE MONEY. IT IS NOT ABOUT THE MONEY The picture is bigger than that. This is just one aspect. Gee Wiz
A Fly onThe Wall Posted July 10, 2005 Posted July 10, 2005 Originally posted by jvjrose IT IS NOT ABOUT THE MONEY. IT IS NOT ABOUT THE MONEY If you are saying that Money=Love then you have more problems in your relationship than you wanting him to spend more money on you.
Kat Posted July 10, 2005 Posted July 10, 2005 Originally posted by jvjrose I guess I am going to have to say this hundred times. IT IS NOT ABOUT THE MONEY. IT IS NOT ABOUT THE MONEY The picture is bigger than that. This is just one aspect. Gee Wiz Then please share the bigger picture with us. If you come in starting a thread asking about how ot get money out of the guy, then excuse us for not seeing this as being anything BUT about the money
Kat Posted July 10, 2005 Posted July 10, 2005 Originally posted by VirginiaBob Hey alpha, some of us have spouses, gf's, fiance's that read this posts. Don't give them any ideas! and some of us know how to treat a man better than that
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