Stuck with the silent treatment from a girl (im a guy)

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So long story short I had a few too many drinks on Friday night, got onto snapchat and told my friend I loved her. I waited about 10 minutes for her to consider what I've said then said I don't love her. I had sorta always liked her a little but never loved her. I have been in the friend zone for about 2 years now and I'm fine with that (drunk me wasn't). So I decided since I would see her on Monday, I wouldn't message/ call her or anything, as it was best to sort it out in person. I encountered her briefly in a room with lots of people, she walked off with her friends and I assumed she didn't see me so I left it to Tuesday.

 

On Tuesday (today) she was sitting with some friends so I went up to the table and tried to talk to her. At first I thought she was just talking to some friends so I waited for her to finish. She turned away, so I went round the other side and she turned away again. So after planning all this talk, I ended up standing there for 30 seconds then walking away awkwardly.

 

I saw her again about an hour and a half later, and tried to talk to her. I said "hey Sophie (not really her name but that will do)". She looked at me very quickly, said a stern "hello" and looked away, trying to busy herself. I tried to continue and she started talking to people she doesn't usually talk to. She then quickly left the room and every time I saw her for the rest of the day she would look away from refusing to make eye contact.

 

In the drunk conversation, I sent her a few funny pictures (which I cant remember), then I said "I love you Sophie (with her name so I couldn't have siad I sent it to the wrong person. She said "do you really mean it" and I said no, I'm really drunk I dont love you, talk to you later. FML :lmao: ". I guess by toying with her feelings she giving me the silent treatment, we are both graduating school in 2 weeks, and wafter being friends for so long, I don't want to end it on a sour note. It is incredbily awkward even being in a room with her, which feels so strange to me as i can usually talk to her for hours and feel really comfortable.

 

I looked up what to do when someone is giving the silent treatment, and it seems to include alot of feelings. I am trying to fix this, and put myself back into the friend zone and out of this awkward place I am now. I would rather not go to deep on the feelings when I do talk to her, as it may indicate I am saying I am just a friend but I think I'm not potentially worsening the situation. Please offer some advice, thanks.

[mikeylo]

Keep your phone away when you are drunk.

[Gloria25]

Dude, you've been in the friendzone...you just can't "spring" on her your undying love and expect it to work out like in the movies.

 

Sorry, but forget her. You're gonna graduate soon and will meet ten more chicks than her. Besides, IMO, she isn't a real friend cuz she had you orbiting her. I start putting a distance between me and a guy if I suspect he has interest and I don't. But hey, some chicks don't care and love attention and having a pet to dote on them.