I’m crushing really hard on my friend’s younger brother

[heartconfused1]

One night I was over at my friend’s house with a group of friends, and the brother and I kept making very intense eye contact. We ended up making out when everyone was asleep. We texted a bit that night, both admitting that we were very attracted to each other, but he said he was scared of letting things get too far because 1. I was going to the same college as his sister and 2. He was scared of screwing up relationships (mostly with his sister). (He's a high school senior and I'm a freshman in college).We both said we were on the fence about the whole thing and decided to talk about it when we woke up.

 

We snapchatted a bit the next morning, but when I texted him later, he completely ignored me. Same with any snapchat I sent for the next week or so. I was scared I had done something wrong, so I texted him saying I wanted to apologize, and he responded with something along the lines of “It’s okay! We made a mistake, there’s nothing to be sorry for.” I asked him if we should just forget about the whole thing, and he said “I guess, what else is there to do?”, and we left the conversation at that.

 

We didn’t talk from then on, but we still followed each other on Twitter and watched each other’s snapchat stories… that is, until I visited my hometown this weekend. After seeing that I was in town, he unfollowed me on all social media including snapchat.

 

I really don’t know what to do. I felt chemistry with this guy that I’ve never felt before, and I wouldn’t be opposed to pursuing something. What do you think is going on with him and what should I do?

Edited October 18, 2016 by heartconfused1

[h0000]

He is not interested. This isn't rocket science. All it ever was for him was just some party kiss. Men can say whatever at the heat of the moment, doesn't mean a thing

[neowulf]

...what should I do?

 

Let it go. He's not interested. It's a big world, full of many opportunities. Don't get hung up on this guy.