iReapZz Posted October 16, 2016 Posted October 16, 2016 Hey everyone. So, there is a girl that I like, I'm 17 and she is 16. I'm almost sure that she likes me too, she is giving many signs that she is into me and I want talk to her, but there are some things that don't let me do it so let me explain the situation. I live in a town with many villages around and she lives in one of these villages. She is coming in town with the bus and she is always with her best friend so they leave together. And that's the problem.. I can never get her alone to talk to her, I usually see her only 2 times/week and when I do we are in a big group of friends so it's not easy for me to talk to her.. As I said, I think she is into me too and I need an oportunity to talk to her. Should I tell her through Facebook?? Any ideas? (Sorry if I made any mistakes) 1
Popsicle Posted October 16, 2016 Posted October 16, 2016 Ahh, teen love... Teens in love usually come up with some scheme to be alone with each other. You just have to think one up!
morrowrd Posted October 16, 2016 Posted October 16, 2016 What's the sense of having power if you don't use it? You have facebook....man use it. Message her, don't overwhelm her but get the ball rolling. In a sense, you're alone with her there. (and that's what you want, right?)
preraph Posted October 16, 2016 Posted October 16, 2016 Just tell her friend, "Can you please excuse us for a few minutes? " and then lead the girl a few feet away and tell her whatever. I can tell you right now girls don't like guys who don't like them having their girlfriends around, so watch your step. It's not her issue that you have a problem being open with her friend there. That's your weakness, not hers. Also, you should know that if either of them acts like they will not be separated, it is not because her friend is blocking you. It is because she knows the girl does not want to be alone with you.
strawberryshortstack Posted October 17, 2016 Posted October 17, 2016 Hey everyone. So, there is a girl that I like, I'm 17 and she is 16. I'm almost sure that she likes me too, she is giving many signs that she is into me and I want talk to her, but there are some things that don't let me do it so let me explain the situation. I live in a town with many villages around and she lives in one of these villages. She is coming in town with the bus and she is always with her best friend so they leave together. And that's the problem.. I can never get her alone to talk to her, I usually see her only 2 times/week and when I do we are in a big group of friends so it's not easy for me to talk to her.. As I said, I think she is into me too and I need an oportunity to talk to her. Should I tell her through Facebook?? Any ideas? (Sorry if I made any mistakes) The guy I dated in high school slipped a note into my locker - you could try something similar. 1
Author iReapZz Posted October 17, 2016 Author Posted October 17, 2016 Thank you all for your suggestions Just tell her friend, "Can you please excuse us for a few minutes? " and then lead the girl a few feet away and tell her whatever. I can tell you right now girls don't like guys who don't like them having their girlfriends around, so watch your step. It's not her issue that you have a problem being open with her friend there. That's your weakness, not hers. Also, you should know that if either of them acts like they will not be separated, it is not because her friend is blocking you. It is because she knows the girl does not want to be alone with you. I CAN be with my girlfriend in a group of friends, that's not my problem, and her friend isn't blocking me from seeing her alone, the problem is that I can't find an excuse to get her and go for a walk or something like that while we are in a group..
smackie9 Posted October 17, 2016 Posted October 17, 2016 If you want to score points with this girl or any girl for that matter, you should be able to go and talk to the two of them. Confidence wins the girl. Just make a bee line to them and say hello, introduce yourself, ask them how they are doing, what are they up to, ask her some questions directly, but also include her friend in the convo. Make sure you say their name while asking a question....it's the sales pitch approach. You don't need an "excuse" to go up and say hello.
mikeylo Posted October 17, 2016 Posted October 17, 2016 She knows you like her. You know she likes you. Next time, be bold, walk towards her and her friend. Say hi to her. She herself ' might' tell her friend to leave you and her alone for a moment. Done.
preraph Posted October 17, 2016 Posted October 17, 2016 Thank you all for your suggestions I CAN be with my girlfriend in a group of friends, that's not my problem, and her friend isn't blocking me from seeing her alone, the problem is that I can't find an excuse to get her and go for a walk or something like that while we are in a group.. Why do you need an excuse for that? If she wanted to go, don't you think just merely suggesting it would be enough, no excuse needed? Tell her, Let's go for a walk, just the two of us. If she doesn't want to go, she doesn't have to, but maybe she will. If she doesn't want to be alone, then she's not that interested.
babylonsfire Posted October 17, 2016 Posted October 17, 2016 Dude, if you have to wait to be alone with a girl, to ask her out; that's going to limit your options for years to come. Girls are rarely alone when you run into them in public, whether they're 16 or 25, or 35. They're working a line, they're at a bar with friends, or a bartender, they're sitting at a club, etc. Even if they're "alone" there's technically other people around most of the time, its very rare to be truly "alone" with a girl, until, well, she's dating you or your girlfriend. You're young, if asking her for a few moments to walk with her, or find time where she's more isolated, or asking her out in front of her friends is too much to start with; just start with conversations. Also, you have literally thousands, if not millions of women to practice with living in your area. Forget age, forget if they might be single or not; the simplest, easiest way to get better at talking to women, is well, to talk to women. Talk to them of all ages, force yourself to start conversations, they could be old enough to be your grandmother; it doesn't matter, build your confidence, and talk to them. That way, when it comes time to talk to the ones you're interested in, you're not fighting that battle at least, at least you're confident enough to talk to them. Maybe not enough to ask them out, might still be nervous, but at least you'll be over the "talking" to them burden. 1
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