Does She Know I Asked Her On A Date?

[Skippy89]

There's a girl that I've gotten to know a month ago. It's gotten to the point where we text every night for an hour or two. I asked her if she wanted to "hang out" with me sometime and she said yes. I suggested on going bowling together and she agreed. We both have bust schedules so finding time is hard. So does she know that I actually asked her out on a date? I mean, going bowling together, plus we've both been trying hard to find a time instead of having a whenever approach to it. I would think she know's, right?

[Satu]

I would think that she knows.

 

Ditch the "hang out" expression, its too vague.

 

 

Take care.

[mushroomlol]

For me hanging out doesn't mean going on a date. But that really depends on how she defines 'date'. Just try to have a good time together and maybe ask her out for an official date next time? I usually like guys being clear about things.

[rester]

On one hand, if it's unclear to you whether she knows or not, there is a good chance she is questioning it as well.

 

On the other hand, it's a night bowling, presumably just the two of you. I think most people would think that's a date.

 

I agree with the other two posters, stop asking to "hang out". It's too vague.

[Redhead14]

There's a girl that I've gotten to know a month ago. It's gotten to the point where we text every night for an hour or two. I asked her if she wanted to "hang out" with me sometime and she said yes. I suggested on going bowling together and she agreed. We both have bust schedules so finding time is hard. So does she know that I actually asked her out on a date? I mean, going bowling together, plus we've both been trying hard to find a time instead of having a whenever approach to it. I would think she know's, right?

 

"Hang out" is a nebulous term. However, she agreed, so go on the date and treat it/her like a date. Pay for everything. Compliment her, but not over the top and tell her you'd like to take her to dinner next week on Xday, at Xplace and at Xtime when the evening comes to a close.