ChickiePops Posted October 19, 2016 Posted October 19, 2016 Have you been honest with him about your reasons for wanting to be friends? Does he know that your goal is to get back together?
Author Fatty23 Posted October 19, 2016 Author Posted October 19, 2016 Have you been honest with him about your reasons for wanting to be friends? Does he know that your goal is to get back together? To be honest, I'm not completely sure what exactly he thinks. That's why I want to clear it up this weekend. At first, I genuinely wanted him in my life so I didn't tell him I wanted to be friends so that we can get back together. We talked about it being a possibility anyway so I didn't mention that was my reason. Now it's what I want. I don't want to be friends. If he doesn't want to be with me then I don't need him in my life. I'm getting used to him not being around but I still love him and want to try.
ChickiePops Posted October 19, 2016 Posted October 19, 2016 To be honest, I'm not completely sure what exactly he thinks. That's why I want to clear it up this weekend. At first, I genuinely wanted him in my life so I didn't tell him I wanted to be friends so that we can get back together. We talked about it being a possibility anyway so I didn't mention that was my reason. Now it's what I want. I don't want to be friends. If he doesn't want to be with me then I don't need him in my life. I'm getting used to him not being around but I still love him and want to try. Being friends with an ex you're still in love with is 100% impossible. You are setting yourself up to get hurt again. 1
Author Fatty23 Posted October 20, 2016 Author Posted October 20, 2016 Being friends with an ex you're still in love with is 100% impossible. You are setting yourself up to get hurt again. I completely agree! That's why I'm gonna ask him if he wants to give it another shot when we hang out. If he doesn't, then I'm gonna tell him we can't be friends now or in the future and that I never want to hear from him again. When I saw him last he said he was not ready to hang out but we could text and that he would try to be more communicative. he said he needed more space until he can hang out again. And that in the future we can be friends and then see if it leads to more. I said no. He asked you've never had someone re-enter your life before ? I said no and I'm not ok with it either. So He said it really has to be now or never? I said yes. He said ok. Then he asked to hang out this weekend. But now I don't want to give him the whole month thing. It's gonna be now or never.
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