lostinbc Posted July 9, 2005 Posted July 9, 2005 Question to all, do you know anyone or have been in a situation where your partner has had cosmetic surgery to make the feel better, then they leave after leaving the surgery, cause all these new doors have opened?
Naive Posted July 10, 2005 Posted July 10, 2005 I have heard of this happening to a few people here. I guess that they just feel so much out going once they changed that thing that made them feel "ugly" but to me the people that do that do not only have a chane on the outside but a real bad change in the inside!!! That's not cool!
quankanne Posted July 10, 2005 Posted July 10, 2005 one of the girls I graduated high school with married her HS sweetheart immediately after we got out. Had three kids, both she and her husband put on serious weight, and she had surgery to make her stomach smaller to help her reverse the effects of obesity. Apparently during that process she "found the courage" to make changes in her personal life too (according to her website) and ended up divorcing her sweetheart. my best friend tells me that talk around our hometown is that this classmate was so "taken" by the weightloss that she wanted to change the rest of her life to suit, but my guess is that the couple was having serious problems before and she found her self-esteem when she lost all that weight, and decided to live healthy in all senses of the word.
Blackfrost Posted July 10, 2005 Posted July 10, 2005 I definitely know a few people who have left their long term marriages, after they went through a physical transformation like cosmetic surgery or a serious dedication to changing themselves through exercise. I'm going through the same process right now, with changing my entire mind and body with the Body for Life program, and have lost 32 lbs of body fat and put on 6 lbs of muscle already in 9 weeks, and am starting to see my ab muslces again for the first time in 10 years. Am I gonna leave my spouse of ten years, now that I'm starting to get noticed by the opposite sex all the time - never. I look at this like (with the body I'm building) I am creating the best sex toy my wife has ever had in her life! haha She deserves it, as she has always stayed in awesome physical shape for me. This is my way of thanking her for not letting herself go....... like I did. Everyone has different agendas. Some people change to escape the life they're in, and others change to enhance and better the one they want.
Author lostinbc Posted July 15, 2005 Author Posted July 15, 2005 Just want to say thanks for the replies. My ex had a nose job and even my friends said that after she had the surgery she changed but I guess I took her for granted that she wouldn't leave after 3.5 years. Big mistake! But it's funny, I loved this girl before she altered her face and would have been by her side still if she didn't, guess she didn't really see that. Ah well, life goes on. Don't mean to toot my own horn but I know that I loved her for who she was on the inside and what she looked on the outside. In my heart she was absolutely beautiful, just the way she was. Anyways cheers!
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