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What does no expectations mean?


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I agree with Redhead that him trying to get sex was probably a big clue. Hot and cold behavior is also really common with guys who either aren't into you or aren't emotionally available. In both cases it's best to move on. Guys who are into you will not leave you guessing IME unless they are game players.

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Thanks guys for the feedback. Now that I look back I do remember him getting upset in the beginning because I wouldn't have sex with him. He said it put too much pressure on him because he felt he is now obligated to take me out on dates in order to have sex with me. I dont know why I overlooked that.

 

Well, at least he's honest. And now that he has been honest with you, he thinks that every time you show interest, you are saying, OK, now I want to have sex with you because I already was told by you that that is all I want. So now he thinks you're nuts because you didn't "get it."

 

Move on. You don't need this.

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