Meathead Posted October 13, 2016 Posted October 13, 2016 So, basically I've been able to get all the ladies I could possibly wave my Willy at for years, BUT I've been talking to this lady online for 7 years, and we've built a pretty solid bond with each other over the years because.. we've practically been eachother's therapist for that long. She recently moved within driving distance to me, and we decided to hang out a couple of times. Well, knowing someone in person is different than talking online.. but it was as if we had known each other in person for that long when we met.. and.. I really like her.. and she hardcore 7 year-strong friendzoned my player ass. She's caught up on a guy who's treating her like garbage and ignoring her. Basically, I thought a tall, handsome guy like me would never be friendzoned but it happened. Shows how much I really don't know about women. And I'm also fighting my urge to stop talking to her because I'm not used to not having what I want and I'm scared to come across as the guy who wants a relationship with a chick that doesn't and losing her as a friend. Advice? Honest opinions?
Blanco Posted October 13, 2016 Posted October 13, 2016 Never too late to learn the valuable lesson that no man is kryptonite to any woman he feels entitled to. 5
morrowrd Posted October 13, 2016 Posted October 13, 2016 I'm glad she friendzoned you. Your outlook about dating and relationships reminds me of how a spoiled brat son from a wealthy family looks at the world, very out of touch. This person buys items at a whim, not because he even needs them or wants them, but because he can. And then after acquring these items, either puts them on a shelf and forgets about them, or uses these things until he's bored then it's off to find something new. This is how you appear to be looking at women, as things. Not getting who you want or getting your way isn't a bad experience, it might lead to a life lesson in appreciation. This girl who friendzoned you, are you perusing her because it's a pride thing? Sounds like it to me, you were pretty happy with the friendzone therapy relationship until you tried to move it up a notch, now your hurt. Ego hurt isn't real hurt, get over it. All you're going to do if you did manage to get her, is use and discard her, and her hurt will be real, unlike yours. 1
Toodaloo Posted October 13, 2016 Posted October 13, 2016 Never too late to learn the valuable lesson that no man is kryptonite to any woman he feels entitled to. Except Blanco... But then he never feels entitled so he is kryptonite anyway... OP you are friendzoned. You are stuck there until you show that you are not a player and you start treating ladies with respect. Newsflash to you. She is not going to be attracted to you because there is absolutely no difference between you and every other self centred prick out there... You are just as bad as the guy she is with now. You are just as bad as her cheating ex and the guy who dated her for 2 weeks then dumped her and the guy who... YOU are those guys. There is absolutely nothing remarkable or special about you and she knows this... You need to be the change if you want to change this situation... Pretty is as pretty does and quite frankly with a bit of age and sagging round those pecs of yours there will always be a younger, prettier guy chasing up behind you if you continue to treat yourself and others like this. You want some one special? Be someone special and start treating others as such.
mssweet Posted October 13, 2016 Posted October 13, 2016 Being tall and handsome doesn't always cut it...sorry bub
ChickiePops Posted October 13, 2016 Posted October 13, 2016 Honest opinion - this is the best thing that could have happened to you. You're very, very cocky and you sound pretty obnoxious..hopefully being taken down a peg will help make you a better person. You've relied on your looks for years..time to work on the personality.
babylonsfire Posted October 13, 2016 Posted October 13, 2016 meh, we all get friend zoned, it happens, move on and find another lady.
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