BAcK Posted October 12, 2016 Posted October 12, 2016 Hello eveyone, Actually this is my second post over here. I was the rebound guy and i learned this after the break up that i was just a temporary bandaid. It was so easy for my ex gf to cut off all ties and just pretend that nothing actually happened. Even i behaved immaturely but i really loved her and maybe compatibility was an issue. However, how can she be so indifferent towards someone who actually loved her more than anyone and she actually said it herself. Am actually NC but it's proving to be really tough to hold on and sometimes there is this urge to just go through her social profiles though she has removed me. Has she moved on with her ex so easily? Does she ever think about me? Will she ever contact me? I already know the answers, still there is this feeling that keeps fueling my hopes of getting back with her. Am actually more mentally and emotionally stable than earlier but as the days go by NC becomes more and more difficult.
Toodaloo Posted October 12, 2016 Posted October 12, 2016 Thats the problem with being the rebound. You have emotions they do too but they are not for you... Its why its seems so easy for them... They just project those false emotions all over the place... But its never real.
aloneinaz Posted October 12, 2016 Posted October 12, 2016 My Mom once told me that it's insane to want someone who doesn't want me. I think it was great advice. When someone says they don't want you in their life anymore, you give it to them. You have to dig deep into your self worth and say F-you, there's someone out there that does want me. We all have to accept that we are not going to be a good match for everyone we date. Even if she was still hung up on her ex, if you had rocked her world, she would of never gone back to him. Ultimately, she liked him more than you. We've all been there and have the participation trophy. Don't beat yourself up. Everyone's been rejected. Look at the rich, beautiful actors/actresses who've been dumped. No one is immune. Learn from this experience what you can. Heal from it and get back on the dating horse. The right person for you is out there.
Redhead14 Posted October 12, 2016 Posted October 12, 2016 Hello eveyone, Actually this is my second post over here. I was the rebound guy and i learned this after the break up that i was just a temporary bandaid. It was so easy for my ex gf to cut off all ties and just pretend that nothing actually happened. Even i behaved immaturely but i really loved her and maybe compatibility was an issue. However, how can she be so indifferent towards someone who actually loved her more than anyone and she actually said it herself. Am actually NC but it's proving to be really tough to hold on and sometimes there is this urge to just go through her social profiles though she has removed me. Has she moved on with her ex so easily? Does she ever think about me? Will she ever contact me? I already know the answers, still there is this feeling that keeps fueling my hopes of getting back with her. Am actually more mentally and emotionally stable than earlier but as the days go by NC becomes more and more difficult. You are in one of the stages of grieving -- denial. This will pass. Then you will go through several emotions at various times. It's a process that waxes and wanes. Just remember that this is denial and that it will pass. She's moved on to the EX easily because she never moved on from him. She still loved him. Be tough and be resolved to push through. Get out there and get busy with YOUR life and forget about HERS . . .
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