PogoStick Posted October 13, 2016 Posted October 13, 2016 Too little info for you to know what kind of person she is. However, you should pass because you're not capable of making it work with her. If she gives you a chance you'll blow it up with your insecurity.
preraph Posted October 13, 2016 Posted October 13, 2016 You need to come off your high horse. A date is not a marriage proposal. A date is just to go out with a person and see IF you would like to see them again, that's all. Like her, you are also on OLD, so you're both doing the same thing, talking to multiple people and trying to see if you like any of them. If you think an attractive women is going to be just sitting on her hands waiting for you to show up, you are not very realistic.
Author Corduroy Posted October 13, 2016 Author Posted October 13, 2016 I was just about to ask her out, but now her profile says thats she's taken! Like WTF! I'm still going to ask her out, then flake on her!
LD1990 Posted October 13, 2016 Posted October 13, 2016 I was just about to ask her out, but now her profile says thats she's taken! Like WTF! I'm still going to ask her out, then flake on her! What a catch you are. She's really missing out. 1
Author Corduroy Posted October 13, 2016 Author Posted October 13, 2016 What a catch you are. She's really missing out. are you being sarcastic?
Miss Peach Posted October 13, 2016 Posted October 13, 2016 This is why I find dating so hard as a woman. I mean I can't act too interested or he thinks I'm desperate. I can't play games and do hard-to-get (not in my nature). If I mention how long I've been single for and maybe what my number is then he will make some kind of value judgement based on that. I just think it's not good to discuss these things until there's enough time that you get a truer sense of the real person. This is exactly how I feel and why I tend to hold back so much around guys unless I now it's a more open-minded guy. Too many mark women down quickly. You should leave this girl alone. If you want a relationship, don't choose a girl that you have negative opinions of. If you can't handle other men being interested in her or that she may have an active sex life, leave her alone. Don't burden her with your insecurities. I know she's taken now but I totally agree.
Author Corduroy Posted October 18, 2016 Author Posted October 18, 2016 I unfriended her online, then she texted me how bummed she was that I did that. I brought up that she was taken, & I didn't feel the need to have her around. She told me she did that so creeps who stop hitting on her. So she doesn't like all these guys after all. Should I set up a date?
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