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Hi everyone,

 

I was thinking of this question after having a conversation with a friend of mine who told me her sister was involved with her AP for 8 years. So I was curious to know how long do affairs typically last and if any of them ended up in a relationship or marriage. What do you make of someone being involved in such a long term affair.

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Hi everyone,

 

I was thinking of this question after having a conversation with a friend of mine who told me her sister was involved with her AP for 8 years. So I was curious to know how long do affairs typically last and if any of them ended up in a relationship or marriage. What do you make of someone being involved in such a long term affair.

 

Sounds like a sweet deal for the married guy.

 

lol.

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There is no rule.

 

I have had some that last a while others that don't. It just depends.

 

And people that have affairs are stupid, I'm stupid, or I was...

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Satirical replies are the only accepted form of payments on loveshack.

 

Lesson learned.

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Mine lasted for 3 months. He had told me he was unhappy and was getting a divorce. After 3 months, he assured me I should give him 6 more months but I told him no. Either seek marriage counseling or call me when you get a divorce.

 

His wife found out soon after, he threw me under the bus, cut me off and I was welcomed to loveshack.org.

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Four months. And another at a year and a half.

 

Still married. OWs dumped

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A lasted 2 months before Dday hit. Then on and off for 1 year while he was figuring out what he wanted. He separated and we have been together 1 solid year now. Still waiting for the big D tho....

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Less than a year. We have been married for several years now.

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Our R has lasted a dozen or so years, of which about 3 were A and another few months before D was finalised so we could M.

 

There is no "typical". Some As last decades, some last a single encounter. Some leave within months to benwith the AP, some leave after a decade or more, and some never do. It really depends on so many factors.

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