sookie321 Posted October 10, 2016 Posted October 10, 2016 (edited) So here's the situation: We (f29&m27) have been dating for couple (7-8) months now. Started really slow. Now, we've met each other's families and there's conversations about the far off future plans, but... I don't feel like a first priority to this guy. We rarely make plans which upsets me (We did talk about this). He rather texts than calls me. Puts himself first in many different ways even though constantly tells me he loves me. Sometimes says he's not ready for a serious relationship f.e. moving in. Also that I want more reassurance than anyone he's ever dated. Maybe it's our different nature - he's creative mess and I'm a planner. Maybe it's my terrible last year's relationship experience. Maybe that's just insecurities and it's all in my head. Maybe I made myself too transparent and available that he takes me for granted. Maybe we're on a different maturity level. Maybe it's all these things? Isn't it truth that if you truly love someone you want to prioritize and spend most of your free time with them when you have the opportunity? That plans come naturally and exciting? That is what I though until now. Can you guys help me unsolve? Edited October 10, 2016 by sookie321
smackie9 Posted October 10, 2016 Posted October 10, 2016 yes breakup and meet someone that fulfills your expectations. Only compatibility sustains a relationship for the long haul....this relationship doesn't have that....that is why it is failing. 1
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